08/14/2026
Legacy is deeply personal, and it is beautifully unique to who we are.
Our Director of Finance, Laurie Thomas, shares her thoughts on leaving a legacy.
"To me, leaving a legacy is not only about what we give when we are gone.There are moments in life that change us forever. Some arrive with joy, some with heartbreak, and some leave us carrying both love and loss in ways words can hardly hold. For me, the loss of my son, Evan Walker Thomas, has shaped the way I see the world, the way I understand grief, and the way I choose to live.
When you lose a child, your life is divided into before and after. The love does not end. The bond does not disappear. But you begin to understand, in the deepest possible way, how fragile life is, how much people carry quietly, and how important it is to meet others with compassion.
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ค๐๐ญ๐จ๐จ๐ง ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐
๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.
I believe in the power of community because I have needed community. I believe in generosity because I have seen how even the smallest act of kindness can help someone survive the hardest day of their life. I believe in legacy because I know that love can continue beyond a lifetime - through the lives we touch, the people we help, and the hope we create for others.
To me, leaving a legacy is not only about what we give when we are gone.
๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐.
It is about using our pain, our story, our gifts, and our love to make the path gentler for someone else.
Evan's life, and the love I will always have for him, continues to guide me. His memory reminds me to show up for people who are hurting, especially those who know the unimaginable grief of losing a child. No parent should feel alone in that pain. No family should have to walk through that kind of loss without care, support, and tenderness around them.
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ฅ๐.
We do not get to choose every part of our story. But we can choose what we do with the love that remains.
And sometimes, the most beautiful legacy we can leave is not a monument or a name on a wall, but a life lived with open hands - a life that reaches toward others, lifts them up, and reminds them they are not alone."