12/05/2023
It’s taken me a few days to absorb the news.
I met Charles, a.k.a. ‘Chuck’ in the 80s during high school. We got to know each other because of his sister Christine, with whom I shared many classes during high school.
Even from back then Charles was even keeled, thoughtful, upbeat, fun and respectful. Not common attributes of high school guys. Being a couple years older, he had his crew. I had my crew but we were generally arms length , because of his sister Christine.
After school, life takes over, I head to the military, and we would not reconnect for many years later until high school reunions and gathering started to take place. Despite the years passing, he’s precisely the same guy I had experienced from our school years. No change whatsoever.
I specifically remember a conversation during a gathering at Whistlers where he was telling me about his creative career; percolating opportunities and doors were opening. His enthusiasm was contagious and I was thrilled for him.
There was always something special about his demeanour, his conviction for his craft and the way he attentively listened and exchanged words, he was locked in and totally engaged in the here and now. Even when I went to one of his movie screenings, he was surrounded by the buzz of cameras, colleagues, industry, people, etc. we locked eyes and he came over. Big smile, quick hug, and a few good words and all he went.
Thanks the social media we had stayed in touch and exchanged messages periodically. We were making arrangements to reconnect when I got back in town, and when he didn’t respond, I simply figured work life got hectic.
The loss of a wonderful human being is beyond words, I’m gutted and my heart hurts for his family and young child, Selah. Everyday is a gift.
Rest in Power Chuck ❤️
