10/03/2026
Please share this important post. Thank you ❤️
I really, really don’t want to write this post. I do not want this to be my reality at all, but I have breast cancer 🎀
Specifically, ER- and PR-positive, HER2-negative invasive ductal carcinoma, which has spread to at least one nearby lymph node.
I have completed four of eight rounds of chemotherapy. Next will be surgery, radiation and hormone treatment, followed by a long recovery. My doctors say it may be around a year before I feel 80 to 90% like myself again. The very good news is that my treatment is with curative intent!
As a self-employed artist and creative, my work is so much more than a job. It’s how I support myself, connect with people and show up in the world. Treatment is affecting my eyes and my ability to draw and paint, which has been difficult, although I’m told it should resolve itself 😮💨
I’ve had to pause teaching at The Creative Cupboard with Art by Keita | Artist & Vocal Coach , my singing work, my artwork and my work with Pemberton Arts Council . Even when treatment ends, I won’t simply bounce back at full capacity, and I don’t know what shape my business or body will be in after being away.
My sister has set up a GoFundMe to support me and my children through treatment and recovery. It will help keep our family afloat, cover the extra costs that keep appearing and give me the breathing room to recover properly instead of rushing back to work.
Asking for help like this is DEEPLY uncomfortable. I’m much more practised at being the independent mum who figures everything out. But the further I get into treatment, the clearer it becomes that I really do need help. Apparently this season includes a big life lesson in receiving love and not being such an island.
Through all of this, I have felt overwhelmingly loved and cared for. My partner has put his life in Australia on pause to be here and help me through the roughest part of chemo. Our family, friends and wider village have shown up with meals, rides, play dates, cleaning, messages, helping hands and huge hearts. I don’t quite have the words for what it means. 💖
If you would like to donate, the GoFundMe link is:
https://gofund.me/3bd124caf
If you can’t, sharing it would also mean so much.
Thank you for showing up for us. ❤️