03/08/2024
Hi there everyone, going through a crazy situation and welcome any words of encouragement, please.
With a lawyer, my kids and I are working through this.
Please share if you've anything to offer re: the same.
When I divorced Jeff 17 yrs ago, he offered to do a DIY divorce agreement to save money on legal fees.
However, turns out, it was also to bypass the divorce laws requiring substantiated financial disclosure for asset division.
B/c Jeff hid assets, there was no equalization of assets as per the law. Hence, in the eyes of the law, we are STILL not legally divorced b/c assets have not been divided!
In the interest of justice, the government's process is very clear. Without financial disclosure, fair divorces are impossible.
Unfortunately, despite knowing that, Jeff immediately got remarried and we embraced Jen into the family. His 'wife' even coached our daughter's soccer team with me.
It's so overwhelming, disappointing, confusing.
I hired a lawyer to rescind, stay, turn-over, Jeff's invalid 2007 separation agreement in court.
To remarry, oneI must be first legally divorced. Duh.
To remarry without meeting the requirements for DIVORCE is bigamy.
Curious if anyone out there as ever experienced such? If so, please share your story, and if not, please pray for Jeff, Jen, Jared, Sage and me. Thank You!
Jeff is a very meticulous detail-oriented guy, yet this huge cloud of uncertainty and shame, potentially bigamy now exists over our heads.
Thanks for listening and for your prayers.
***Anybody going through this process now, it is in your best interest to follow the law and to be open/honest. Don't skip any steps, the Truth always comes out.