10/13/2026
Why Bowling Together Might Save Our Society | 10@9 | 2026.10.13
What if one way to repair our increasingly lonely, divided, and distrustful society is surprisingly simple - doing more things together? More than 25 years ago, Robert Putnam's groundbreaking Bowling Alone documented the decline of clubs, associations, and community participation. His research showed how these connections build social capital - the relationships, trust, and mutual responsibility that make life better for individuals and society.
But the Torah presents a fascinating challenge. The builders of the Tower of Babel were extraordinarily united, working together on an enormous common project. Yet according to Abarbanel, under Nimrod's leadership, their society was characterized by tyranny, oppression, and a profound lack of human dignity. God dismantled their society to make possible a different kind of society. Their story teaches us that unity alone is not enough. What matters is whether our connections foster trust, respect, and genuine concern for others.
Putnam's research and Abarbanel's interpretation together offer a powerful lesson for our own time. Building a better society doesn't necessarily require grand gestures. Joining a Mah-Jong group or walking group, attending synagogue services and staying to socialize, volunteering, or simply becoming involved in a community can help build the relationships on which a healthy society depends. These ordinary choices can enrich our own lives while helping repair the social fabric for everyone.
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