10/11/2026
This Thanksgiving weekend... pass the gravy, not the baby!
As families and friends gather around the table, there's often no shortage of loving arms eager to hold the newest little member of the family. And while those cuddles are offered with the best intentions, it's worth remembering that babies don't need to be passed around to feel loved, and parents shouldn't feel obligated to share their baby with everyone in the room.
Keeping your baby close, especially in those early weeks and months, helps parents recognize feeding cues, respond to their baby's needs, and protect the breastfeeding relationship. Frequent access to the breast supports milk production, while familiar arms, warmth, and closeness offer comfort and reassurance in what might be a busy, overwhelming environment.
For breastfeeding mothers and parents, holiday gatherings sometimes come with unsolicited advice, questions about feeding, or well-meaning relatives suggesting that someone else hold the baby so you can have a break. But sometimes, the most helpful thing someone can do is bring you a plate of food, refill your water, or make sure you have a comfortable place to feed your baby.
And if you want someone else to hold your baby while you enjoy a warm meal? That's wonderful too! The choice belongs to you.
This Thanksgiving, let's celebrate families by respecting their boundaries, supporting their feeding choices, and remembering that a baby is a person with needs, not a holiday tradition to be passed around.
From all of us at La Leche League Canada, wishing you a Thanksgiving filled with good food and good connection!
