07/08/2026
【一分鐘讀關公】
土山約三事——真正的忠義,是任何時候都不忘自己的原則
建安五年,劉備兵敗,關羽被曹操大軍圍困於土山。
當時,關羽身邊還有劉備的兩位夫人。面對重重包圍,他既不能輕易投降,也不能不顧兩位嫂夫人的安危。
在進退兩難之際,關羽提出了三個條件:
⚔️ 第一,只降漢朝,不降曹操。
⚔️ 第二,必須善待並保護劉備的兩位夫人。
⚔️ 第三,一旦得知劉備的下落,無論千里萬里,都要立即離開,前往追隨。
曹操接受了這三個條件,關羽才暫時留在曹營。
後來,曹操給予關羽高官厚祿、金銀財寶,希望能讓他留下。
但關羽始終沒有忘記自己的承諾。
當他得知劉備的消息後,便掛印封金,離開曹營,踏上尋找兄長的道路。
這就是著名的 「土山約三事」。
這個故事告訴我們:
人生有時會遇到不得不妥協的處境,但妥協不代表放棄原則。
真正有信念的人,知道什麼可以退讓,也知道什麼永遠不能交換。
關公教導我們:
⚔️ 身處逆境,仍要守住底線。
⚔️ 面對利益,不忘自己的承諾。
⚔️ 承擔責任,保護應該保護的人。
⚔️ 無論環境如何改變,都不忘初心。
環境可以改變一個人的處境,但不應改變一個人的品格。
願我們都能學習關公的忠義精神,在人生的選擇面前,守住原則,信守承諾,坦蕩前行。
❤️ 忠義長存.慈航濟世 ❤️
北美忠義慈航協會
# # **One Minute with Guan Gong**
# # # **The Three Conditions at Tushan — True Loyalty Means Never Abandoning Your Principles**
In the fifth year of Jian’an, Liu Bei was defeated in battle, and Guan Yu found himself surrounded by Cao Cao’s forces at Tushan.
At the time, Guan Yu was responsible for protecting Liu Bei’s two wives. Faced with overwhelming forces, he could neither surrender without conditions nor ignore his responsibility to keep them safe.
In this difficult situation, Guan Yu proposed three conditions:
⚔️ **First, he would submit to the Han Dynasty, not personally to Cao Cao.**
⚔️ **Second, Liu Bei’s two wives must be treated with respect and protected.**
⚔️ **Third, once he learned of Liu Bei’s whereabouts, he must be free to leave immediately and reunite with him, no matter how far away he might be.**
Only after Cao Cao accepted these conditions did Guan Yu temporarily remain in Cao Cao’s camp.
Later, Cao Cao offered Guan Yu official titles, wealth, gold, and generous rewards, hoping to persuade him to stay.
But Guan Yu never forgot his promise.
As soon as he learned where Liu Bei was, he returned the official seal, left the rewards behind, and departed to search for his sworn brother.
This became known as the story of **“The Three Conditions at Tushan.”**
The story reminds us that life sometimes places us in situations where compromise is necessary.
But compromise does not mean abandoning our principles.
A person of true character knows what can be negotiated—and what should never be exchanged for comfort, wealth, or personal gain.
Guan Gong reminds us to:
⚔️ Hold on to our principles during difficult times.
⚔️ Keep our promises even when faced with temptation.
⚔️ Take responsibility for those we have promised to protect.
⚔️ Never forget our values, no matter how circumstances change.
**Circumstances may change where we stand, but they should never change who we are.**
May the spirit of Guan Gong inspire us to live with loyalty, integrity, responsibility, and unwavering principles.
❤️ **Loyalty Forever • Mercy for All** ❤️
**Loyalty and Mercy Voyage Association of North America**