09/15/2026
Aaniin, She:kon, and warm greetings to our relatives, allies, and community.
If things have felt quiet on the Building the Fire page over the past while, there is a sacred reason. On September 10th, our family was blessed to welcome a precious baby boy into the world.
Following the guidance of our Elders and Aunties, I am currently observing a sacred period of postpartum rest to honor the ceremony of pregnancy, birth, and new life. In our traditional ways, this quiet time protects the spirit of mother and child, lets the body heal, and grounds the home in prayer and peace.
Welcoming our son was also a moment of deep ancestral healing. He came into this world at Victoria Hospital surrounded by Elder drumming, traditional song, and the medicine of a smudge right in the delivery room. A generation ago—even a decade ago—ceremony inside hospital walls was something many of our people could only dream of. That sacred space only existed because of the tireless dedication of our ogichidaa, advocates, healthcare workers, and healers who fought relentlessly so our medicines, protocols, and sovereignty could exist in institutional spaces. I hold profound gratitude for every warrior who cleared that trail.
Even as I rest my body in the lodge of my home, my spirit walks alongside all of you.
September carries immense weight. As we approach the days of truth and remembrance, especially Orange Shirt Day on September 30th, we remember that building the 8th Fire begins with confronting hard truths. Wearing an orange shirt is a deeply meaningful statement of remembrance, honoring the children who never made it home and the generations altered forever. But that shirt is also a lifelong commitment, not a finish line.
The teachings of the 8th Fire invite us to carry that remembrance into our daily routines, our workplaces, and our everyday choices.
True reconciliation cannot happen without everyday action, humility, and systemic accountability. It asks us to move beyond symbolic gestures and lean into the real, ongoing commitments our communities need.
This work means picking up the Truth and Reconciliation Commission’s 94 Calls to Action and the MMIWG2S 231 Calls for Justice not as passive reading, but as living, urgent blueprints for transformation in healthcare, education, justice, and child welfare. We cannot speak of healing while our Indigenous women, girls, Two-Spirit, and gender-diverse relatives continue to face disproportionate violence and systemic indifference; honoring our stolen sisters requires our unrelenting vigilance and voice every single day.
Accountability also flows through our waters. Nibi bimaadiziwin—water is life. When our Water Walkers lift their copper vessels in ceremony and walk the highway shoulders in prayer, they carry both a spiritual devotion to Mother Earth and a reminder that clean, safe drinking water remains a basic human right denied to far too many First Nations across this country.
As we step into ceremonial spaces—whether gathering around a Sacred Fire, greeting the sun, or joining a pipe circle—we are called to arrive with humility, clean hands, and open hearts. Bringing semaa (to***co) in respect, dressing mindfully, and prioritizing listening to our Elders, Knowledge Keepers, and Aunties ensures our spaces stay protected, sacred, and grounded in original teachings.
To every single person who gathers around this fire, this comes straight from a heart overflowing with gratitude and humility.
To our Elders, Aunties, and Knowledge Keepers: chi-miigwech, nia:wen for holding us in fierce kindness, for correcting our steps with love when we stumble, and for anchoring us to the ground. Thank you for teaching me that resting is not stepping away from the work, but a sacred ceremony of its own that honors the gifts Creator places in our care. Your patience and wisdom are the heartbeat of everything we do.
To our kin who are walking the tender path of reconnecting: please know that you are seen, held, and cherished exactly as you are. If you are just learning how to hold semaa, singing your first song, or searching for the names and stories of your ancestors, there is a place waiting for you at this fire without condition or judgment. Colonization tried with all its might to sever our roots, but our ancestors buried them so deep within the earth that they could never be pulled up. You belong here, and there is no timeline or deadline on coming home.
And to our allies walking beside us: chi-miigwech for choosing to show up with open ears, humble hearts, and willing hands. Thank you for leaning into the discomfort of the truth, for refusing to look away from hard history, and for carrying that weight into your workplaces, dinner tables, and community spaces. We cannot tend and build this 8th Fire alone; it takes all of us bringing our gifts, supporting Indigenous makers, uplifting grassroots leadership, and committing to real, lasting change together.
Local Gatherings & Events
Please join us in community across our region to bear witness, listen, and walk together. Note the dates as we gather to learn, pray, and heal:
Oxford County
2nd Annual Truth and Reconciliation March (Woodstock): Sunday, September 27, 2026 (12:00 PM – 5:00 PM)
Hosted by Two Row Creeations. Gather in community at Museum Square (Woodstock, ON) to walk in honor—for the children, the survivors, the future. The afternoon features Indigenous drummers and dancers, artisans, food vendors, community and cultural resource tables, children's activities, guest speakers, and the solidarity march.
Survivors' Flag Raising Ceremony (Ingersoll): Monday, September 28, 2026 (12:00 PM / Noon)
Hosted by the Town of Ingersoll Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) Committee. Join together for the raising of the Survivors’ Flag in ceremony, honoring the resilience of residential school survivors, their families, and all the children who never returned home.
Sunrise Ceremony with Elder Mary Lou Smoke (Pittock Conservation Area, Woodstock): Wednesday, September 30, 2026 (Sunrise)
Hosted by the Upper Thames River Conservation Authority (UTRCA), with support from the City of Woodstock and Two Row Creeations. Gather at daybreak to open the National Day for Truth and Reconciliation in ceremony and prayer alongside respected Elder Mary Lou Smoke at the Sacred Fire, honoring survivors, remembering the children, and greeting the dawn together in community reflection.
Reconciliation Reflection Route / Self-Reflection Walk (Ingersoll): Wednesday, September 30, 2026 (Open throughout the day)
An intentional, self-guided space along the trail in Ingersoll for quiet prayer, reflection, and honoring the legacy of residential school survivors and families.
Every Child Matters Flag Raisings & Displays: Wednesday, September 30, 2026
Orange Shirt Day commemorations and displays taking place across municipal centres and town halls throughout Oxford County.
London & Middlesex Region
Atlohsa Family Healing Services Gathering (The Green, Wortley Village - London): Wednesday, September 30, 2026 (Sunrise through afternoon)
Opening at sunrise with the lighting of the Sacred Fire, followed by smoke dances, jingle dress healing songs, guest speakers, community food, and an Indigenous artisan market.
Mount Elgin Youth Nibi / Honor Walk: Wednesday, September 30, 2026
Walking in ceremony and remembrance from Chippewas of the Thames toward London to honor the lost children and survivors of the Mount Elgin Industrial Institute.
Kitchener-Waterloo Region
The Healing of the Seven Generations (H7G) Annual "Remember Me" Walk: Wednesday, September 30, 2026 (10:00 AM)
Gathering at 300 Frederick Street in Kitchener at 10:00 AM, walking in unity down to Victoria Park for drumming, speeches, and community connection.
Crow Shield Lodge (Waterloo Region): Wednesday, September 30, 2026
Providing a dedicated ceremonial fire, land-based teachings, and reflection space to honor family lineages, ancestors, and communal healing.
Community Spaces & Learning Resources
Whether you are looking to reconnect, learn, or offer support, these organizations and spaces lead vital work year-round:
Two Row Culture & Community Centre / Two Row Creeations (Woodstock): A grassroots Indigenous cultural and community hub dedicated to cultural workshops, drum and sharing circles, youth learning, and uplifting Indigenous makers and knowledge.
Wampum Learning Lodge (Western University, London): A gathering space dedicated to Indigenous ways of knowing, decolonization, and cultural resurgence. Offers community workshops, an outdoor ceremonial arbor, an Elder-in-Residence program, and connection for students and community members.
Atlohsa Family Healing Services (London): Providing holistic community healing, language programming, culture, and emergency shelter resources grounded in Indigenous values.
Ontario Native Women’s Association (ONWA): Advocating for the safety, health, leadership, and rights of Indigenous women, girls, and families across Ontario.
The Healing of the Seven Generations (H7G - Kitchener): Grassroots frontline support, residential school survivor resources, and cultural programming.
Crow Shield Lodge (Waterloo Region): Fostering healing and reconciliation through land-based practices, cultural education, and community unity.
Chi-miigwech for giving our family the quiet grace to rest, heal, and bond during these sacred weeks. My prayers are with each of you as we keep the fire burning.
With love, gratitude, and solidarity,
Patricia
Building the Fire