06/01/2026
It's been 2 years.
So why does it still hurt this much?
Because every time I want to go shopping with my mom, I can't.
Every time I want to call her after a long day, I can't.
Every time something exciting happens and I want to tell her first, I can't.
People often think grief is about missing the person.
But what they don't realize is that it's also about missing the life you had with them.
The traditions.
The conversations.
The inside jokes.
The little things that felt so ordinary at the time.
Two years later, it's not always the big moments that hurt the most.
Sometimes it's standing in a store and seeing something she would have loved.
Sometimes it's wanting her opinion.
Sometimes it's simply wishing you could spend one more ordinary afternoon together.
That's why it still hurts.
Not because you're stuck.
But because love doesn't stop just because time passes.
❤️ What's one thing you wish you could still do with your person?