10/09/2026
🍂 There's Someone Missing at the Table This Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving brings families together, but when someone we love has died, those familiar gatherings can feel very different.
An empty chair. A voice we long to hear. Someone who should be there, but isn't.
And sometimes, there's something else missing too.
The conversations about them.
Friends and family may avoid mentioning someone who has died, afraid of causing sadness or tears.
But here's something we hear so often from people who are grieving:
“I want people to talk about them. I want to hear their name. I want to remember.”
Saying their name doesn't remind us they're gone. We haven't forgotten.
And while memories may bring tears, they can also bring smiles, laughter and the comfort of knowing others remember them too.
And remember, tears are always welcome. They're an expression of love. 💚
So this Thanksgiving, a few gentle reminders:
🍁 Say their name. Don't be afraid to mention them.
🍁 Share a memory. A funny story, a favourite tradition or something you loved about them.
🍁 Make space for feelings. If tears come, you don't need to fix them.
🍁 Follow their lead. Some may want to talk; others may not feel ready. Both are okay.
And if you're grieving, remember that you can change traditions, take a break or do things differently this year.
You can be grateful for what you have and still deeply miss who you've lost.
Sometimes, the greatest gift we can offer is simply remembering together.
💚 Is there someone you'll be remembering this Thanksgiving? We'd love to hear their name or a favourite memory, if you feel comfortable sharing.
