09/12/2026
Redefining Motherhood: The Power of Being an Independent Mother
What does it mean to start over in a new country—not only as a newcomer, but as a mother responsible for building a new life for herself and her two young daughters?
Today on Calgary Talks, we bring you the inspiring journey of Humaira Falak, who prefers to describe herself not as a single mother, but as an independent mother.
For Humaira, words matter. She feels the term “single mother” can sometimes carry labels and assumptions, while independent mother represents strength, responsibility, choice and empowerment.
Born in Hyderabad, Sindh, to parents originally from the Bahawalnagar region of Punjab, Humaira grew up across Pakistan because of her father’s work with the federal government. From Islamabad to Karachi and Lahore, changing cities, schools and communities became part of her childhood.
Growing up alongside friends from different religious and cultural backgrounds, and being exposed through her father’s work with international development organizations, gave her an early appreciation for diversity and multiculturalism. She later completed a Master’s in English Literature, initially imagining that perhaps one day she would become a writer.
But life had a very different story waiting for her.
In 2013, Humaira arrived in Canada with her two young daughters, then only two and three years old. She describes what followed as a journey of self-discovery, healing and rebuilding.
It wasn’t easy. But as Humaira puts it, it was her decision. She wanted to prove to herself that she could build and manage a new life—and she did.
She began reaching out to social-service agencies, searching for employment and volunteering in the community. Along the way, she realized that she needed to strengthen her Canadian credentials and returned to school to study human development and social services.
What began as a search for support gradually became a calling to support others.
Humaira volunteered with organizations including CIWA, the courthouse, the Women’s Centre, Calgary Seniors’ Resource Society and United Way. After completing her diploma, she went on to work with Calgary Seniors’ Resource Society for three years.
She says the support systems and opportunities she discovered in Canada helped her regain a sense of identity, changed her perspective on life and empowered her to move forward. Giving back to the community therefore became deeply personal.
In today’s episode, Humaira talks openly about navigating a new country and an unfamiliar system, raising her daughters independently, rebuilding her professional identity, finding strength through community service, and eventually using her own experiences to help others navigate their journeys.
This is a story about independence, resilience, belonging and giving back.
Let’s listen to Humaira Falak’s journey—from seeking support to becoming a source of support for others.
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