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Healthy Routes Counselling & coaching for teens (13+), young adults & parents. Confidence, life skills, anxiety, ADHD & real-life mental health support.
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Author of Not Today, Frank! Practical, conversational support that fits real life. I support teens (13+), young adults, and parents through counselling and coaching focused on confidence, life skills, emotional regulation, and mental health. Iโ€™m also the author of Not Today, Frank! โ€” a practical, relatable book that helps teens understand anxiety, confidence, and growing up without pressure or flu

ff. My work is conversational, supportive, and grounded in real life, offering families practical guidance that fits their schedules and what theyโ€™re navigating right now.

As teens head into the summer months, many parents find themselves navigating a tricky balance between independence, saf...
05/28/2026

As teens head into the summer months, many parents find themselves navigating a tricky balance between independence, safety, social pressures, boundaries, technology, freedom, and simply trying to stay connected with their teen through it all.

Iโ€™m really looking forward to partnering with Cst. Sarah Marcantonio of the Ottawa Police Youth Division for an honest and relaxed online parent conversation around teens, summer, and safety in our community.

The evening is designed to be a practical and approachable conversation where parents can gain perspective, ask questions, and walk away feeling more informed, supported, and prepared for the summer months ahead.

Whether your teen is entering high school, spending more time out with friends, online more often, or simply craving more independence, this conversation is meant to support parents through the realities of this stage of life.

๐Ÿ“… Thursday, June 11th
๐Ÿ•ข 7:30 PM โ€“ 8:30 PM
๐Ÿ’ป Online via Zoom

Limited spots available โ€ข Registration required

๐Ÿ”— Register here: https://www.healthyroutes.ca/workshops

Ontario parents โ€” this one is for you.The attendance conversation happening in our schools right now is missing somethin...
04/23/2026

Ontario parents โ€” this one is for you.

The attendance conversation happening in our schools right now is missing something important.

I wrote about it this week. If it resonates, please share it. The more people who see this โ€” or if it finds its way into the right hands to spark real change โ€” the better this conversation gets.

Would love to hear your thoughts.

Ontario's attendance crisis isn't about motivation. As a family addiction counsellor and life skills educator, what I hear from teenagers is simpler and more urgent โ€” they don't have the social and interpersonal skills to walk through the door. Here's what we're missing.

04/21/2026

Frank is celebrating his 1-year anniversaryโ€ฆ
so weโ€™re giving away ANOTHER FREE COPY this week๐Ÿ“š

Last week we had ONE person comment ๐—™๐—ฅ๐—”๐—ก๐—ž
So letโ€™s see if we can get a little more competition this time.๐Ÿ˜…

๐—ช๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ?
๐Ÿ‘‡ Comment ๐—™๐—ฅ๐—”๐—ก๐—ž to enter
Iโ€™ll be drawing the winner Friday ๐Ÿ‘€

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€?
Not quiteโ€ฆ adults are reading it tooโ€”and having their own A-ha moments ๐Ÿ˜

๐—”๐—น๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐˜?
Your words matter more than mineโ€”
if youโ€™ve read it, share a quick thought or review below and help someone else jump in and comment ๐—™๐—ฅ๐—”๐—ก๐—ž.

Letโ€™s turn this into a real giveaway this time!! See you Friday.๐Ÿ˜Š

๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€๐Ÿ’›We wait for the โ€œright momentโ€ to connectโ€ฆ itโ€™s usually already happening in the ordinary.๐Ÿ‘‰A car ride.๐Ÿ‘‰A...
04/19/2026

๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€๐Ÿ’›
We wait for the โ€œright momentโ€ to connectโ€ฆ itโ€™s usually already happening in the ordinary.
๐Ÿ‘‰A car ride.
๐Ÿ‘‰A laugh.
๐Ÿ‘‰A moment in the kitchen
Thatโ€™s where the real connection lives.
Wishing you all a great week ahead. ๐Ÿ˜€

04/17/2026

ANNND this might be my most intense giveaway yet ๐Ÿ˜‚
You might want to sit down for thisโ€ฆ

I posted a โ€œcomment to winโ€ giveawayโ€ฆ

and we got ONE comment ๐Ÿ˜…

Which officially makes this the easiest giveaway Iโ€™ve ever done ๐Ÿ˜‚

CONGRATS๐ŸŽ‰ to Chantal Loyerโ€”you had a 100% chance of winning, and Frank has been sitting on the shelf just waiting to make his way into your house ๐Ÿ˜„

I hope you LOVE it as much as I LOVED writing it.

Not Today, Frank! is officially yours ๐Ÿ“šSend me a message so I can get it to you!

Alright followersโ€ฆ letโ€™s not repeat that performance next week ๐Ÿ˜‚
Iโ€™ll be running another book giveaway, so donโ€™t sit this one out.

Letโ€™s see if we can give Chantal a little competition next round ๐Ÿ˜

04/15/2026

Itโ€™s been ๐Ÿ…พ๐Ÿ…ฝ๐Ÿ…ด year since ๐™‰๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™๐™ค๐™™๐™–๐™ฎ, ๐™๐™ง๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ ! was released ๐ŸŽ‰

Soโ€ฆ Iโ€™m giving away a copy!

It was written for teensโ€”but honestly, adults are loving it just as much.

Comment "๐…๐‘๐€๐๐Š" if you want in.

Iโ€™ll be randomly drawing one name from the list on Friday ๐Ÿ‘€

If youโ€™ve been here quietly following alongโ€”donโ€™t let Frank convince you to scroll past this.๐Ÿ’›

Happy Hump Day!!!

โš  Last chanceโ€”Parent Anxiety Online Workshop is tomorrow night.This is one you donโ€™t want to miss. If youโ€™re seeing worr...
04/14/2026

โš  Last chanceโ€”Parent Anxiety Online Workshop is tomorrow night.

This is one you donโ€™t want to miss. If youโ€™re seeing worry, shutdowns, or overwhelm and not sure how to respond, this will give you real clarity and tools you can actually use.

๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ.
Register here: www.healthyroutes.ca/workshops

๐ŸŽ‰ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ธโ€™๐˜€ ๐—•๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—š๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜†๐ŸŽ‰My book just turned ONEโ€ฆ and Frank has been relentless about it ๐Ÿ˜„๐ŸซฃHe keeps showing up.๐ŸคซRepea...
04/13/2026

๐ŸŽ‰ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ธโ€™๐˜€ ๐—•๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—š๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜†๐ŸŽ‰

My book just turned ONEโ€ฆ and Frank has been relentless about it ๐Ÿ˜„

๐ŸซฃHe keeps showing up.
๐ŸคซRepeating himself.
๐ŸฅดNot letting it goโ€”

โ€œ๐˜Š๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜‘๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏโ€ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บโ€ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บโ€ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บโ€ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ช๐˜ตโ€ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณโ€ฆโ€

Yepโ€ฆ thatโ€™s exactly what anxiety sounds like.
And nopeโ€”Frank is not letting this go ๐Ÿ˜„

Over the next two weeks, Iโ€™m giving away 2 copies of ๐™‰๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™๐™ค๐™™๐™–๐™ฎ, ๐™๐™ง๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ !

๐–๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ข๐ง? ๐‹๐ž๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐จ:
Either
โœ”๏ธ Like this post
โœ”๏ธ Comment โ€œNot Today, Frank!โ€
โœ”๏ธ Tag someone who might need thisโ€”parent, teenโ€ฆ or letโ€™s be real, an adult who could use this too!

Iโ€™ll be drawing 2 winners over the next two weeks ๐Ÿ“–
Follow along and keep an eye on your messages and this page to see if youโ€™re a winner.

Soulful Sundays ๐Ÿ’›This week, notice where you are ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ-๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ.Sometimes that comes ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™™๐™ž๐™จ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™›๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ.Sometimes...
04/12/2026

Soulful Sundays ๐Ÿ’›
This week, notice where you are ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ-๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ.

Sometimes that comes ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™™๐™ž๐™จ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™›๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ.
Sometimes it comes from ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™š ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™ง๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ค๐™™.

Not every choice needs permission.
Some just need your trust.๐Ÿซถ

Have a good week everyone!

ONE YEAR of  ๐™‰๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™๐™ค๐™™๐™–๐™ฎ, ๐™๐™ง๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ !๐ŸŽ‰And wowโ€ฆ what a year itโ€™s been!Frank and I have been busyโ€”working alongside kids, teens, ...
04/11/2026

ONE YEAR of ๐™‰๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™๐™ค๐™™๐™–๐™ฎ, ๐™๐™ง๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ !๐ŸŽ‰
And wowโ€ฆ what a year itโ€™s been!

Frank and I have been busyโ€”working alongside kids, teens, and families, helping them face the thoughts that hold them back, build confidence, and step into who theyโ€™re becoming.

And weโ€™re not done!!
Weโ€™re continuing this work all month long ๐Ÿ’›
โ†’ Parent workshops
โ†’ Youth workshops
โ†’ And something new dropping tomorrowโ€ฆ

Because every birthday needs a little celebrationโ€ฆ
Frank insisted we do a giveaway.

I will be announcing this in the days ahead! ๐ŸŽ

Enjoy your weekend everyone!๐Ÿ˜€

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