05/06/2026
During Damian’s illness, butterflies were an important symbol for him and the rest of his family. His mum Bronwyn would buy a small butterfly every time he was admitted to the hospital ward.
Bronwyn still has many of those butterflies at home. Others were gifted to friends and family at Damian’s farewell ceremony. They were a special symbol for everyone to remember Damian by. 🦋
Butterflies were also at the centre of a very special conversation Bronwyn and Damian shared towards the end of his illness. He told his mum that after his passing he would come back to visit as a brown and red butterfly.
Bronwyn laughed at first. She told him: “I don’t think butterflies come in those colours Damian!”
Shortly after Damian passed away, Bronwyn was in the garden at home when a butterfly landed on her shoulder. It was brown and red – unmistakable amongst the black and white butterflies she saw every day.
It was a moment that brought Bronwyn peace amongst her grief.
“Our home was the family home. It was always Dee’s home too. It is very special to think that a part of him continues to be here with us,” she said.
One of the most valuable ways palliative care can support patients like Damian and their families, is by giving them time to share important conversations. Whether they are about wishes for end-of-life, or the little moments that can bring peace after loss.
