16/06/2026
How Do We Respond to People in Our Church Who We Believe Are Struggling?
There is a concerning trend among some Christians toward "exposing" those who are struggling or who have stumbled.
These are our considered thoughts on how we might respond — with grace and wisdom — to people in our church community whom we believe may be living in ways that aren't honouring God.
It helps to begin with how the New Testament defines sin. Romans 14:23 tells us that "whatever is not of faith is sin." In other words, sin is less about a checklist of actions and more about what people believe — about God, about themselves, and about others. Seen this way, our first response to someone who is struggling is not correction, but encouragement: building faith in what God has already done for them and in them.
The New Covenant also reminds us that "the strength of sin is the law" (1 Corinthians 15:56). While the Law exposes sin, it has no power to change us from the inside. We are not called to be ministers of the Law, but ministers of the New Covenant of grace. Law-centred responses tend to produce shame, causing people to withdraw from fellowship — and from the very grace that other believers are meant to offer. Lasting change comes through grace and the work of the Holy Spirit, not through guilt, shame, or condemnation (Romans 3:20; Romans 8:1–4; Galatians 3:24).
The New Testament holds up love, grace, restoration, and faith-filled righteousness as our goal — not the exposure or criticism of fellow believers who are struggling. Where a concern does need to be raised, Jesus gently instructed that it should begin privately, then involve one or two mature believers if needed, and only reach the wider church in cases of persistent, unrepentant conduct (Matthew 18:15–17). Public correction is therefore rarely appropriate and is generally reserved for serious, ongoing situations that put the spiritual well-being of the whole community at risk (1 Corinthians 5:1–13; 1 Timothy 5:20).
With this in mind, we are encouraged to approach one another with the same grace we ourselves have received from Christ. Those who are "spiritual" — that is, those who walk in the Spirit and understand God's grace — are entrusted with the tender work of restoration. This must always be done with humility, gentleness, and a clear awareness of our own frailty (Galatians 6:1–3).
The New Testament holds truth and grace together — indeed, grace as truth. We are called to respond to one another in ways that reflect love, extend forgiveness, and point people towards the transforming power of grace and the righteousness found in faith. This is the heart of Christ himself, who came not to condemn the world, but so that the world through him might be saved (John 3:17; James 5:19–20; 2 Corinthians 2:6–8).
The church, then, is called to be a community of grace — a place where every believer can find healing, restoration, and a renewed sense of belonging.