14/09/2026
Funny story time π¦π...
Anybody who has visited our clinic has probably seen our beloved bearded dragon, Lizagna. Affectionately known as Lizzy.
Over the years, Lizzy became a little part of the kidsβ experience at the Foundation. βHello Lizzy!β and βGoodbye Lizzy!β became regular greetings as kids came and went.
After years of proudly holding the position of Chief Happiness Officer, Lizzy recently crossed the rainbow bridge. π
Naturally, we found ourselves discussing how we were going to handle this with the kids.
Do we talk about death and help children understand what has happened?
Or do we go with the classic...
"Oh, she just went on a really long holiday."
We obviously chose honesty and education.
Step one was creating a social story about Lizzy's death and sharing it with our clinicians so they had something available to support any children who might need help understanding what had happened.
And then...
I happened to be filling in at the front desk that first evening.
One of our very astute little clients noticed something immediately.
βWhereβs Lizzy?β
So, somehow, I found myself being the first person to navigate the conversation.
I explained that Lizzy had died, but that she was old, and sometimes that happens when living things get very old.
She thought about this for a moment before asking:
βHow old was Lizzy?β
I said, βI think Lizzy was about 8 years old.β
She looked absolutely TERRIFIED.
βI'M 7! I'M ALMOST OLD! WHAT DOES THAT MEAN FOR ME?!β π±π
And so began an entirely unexpected conversation about human ages versus bearded dragon ages.
A very important distinction that, in hindsight, probably should have been included in my original explanation.
This is why I shouldn't cover the front desk. π
But in all seriousness, it was a lovely reminder of why these conversations matter.
Children deserve honest, developmentally appropriate explanations about difficult things, along with the opportunity to ask questions and make sense of what they've experienced.
Sometimes you prepare the social story.
Sometimes you prepare the clinicians.
And sometimes you just have to explain that being 7 does not mean you're about to turn into an elderly bearded dragon.
RIP Lizzy. π¦π
You really did leave us with one last lesson.