12/10/2026
Maybe a friend betrayed you when you needed her most.
Maybe you learned early that other women were competition. π
The sisterhood wound is a term sometimes used to describe the hurt, mistrust, comparison and disconnection that can develop between women.
And these wounds do not appear out of nowhere.
Girls grow up receiving messages about whose body is more desirable, who gets chosen, who is βtoo much,β who is respectable, who deserves protection and whose success should feel threatening.
Patriarchal systems can reinforce competition where there could have been solidarity. Social exclusion, bullying, racism, class, beauty standards and experiences of betrayal can deepen it further.
So we protect ourselves.
We compare.
We judge.
We keep our distance.
Sometimes we hurt each other. π§οΈ
But relationships can also become part of the repair.
A woman who celebrates you without competing. π€
A friend who believes your story.
A circle where nobody asks you to make yourself smaller.
Someone who holds your hand when you finally speak.
Women creating, laughing, grieving and rebuilding alongside one another. π¨πΏ
Healing together does not mean pretending women never harm other women.
It means creating relationships where there is space for boundaries, accountability, difference, repair and genuine care. π€
For survivors of trafficking and gender-based violence, this can be especially powerful.
After experiences that teach the nervous system βpeople are dangerous,β being met again and again with safe, respectful connection can offer another experience:
I donβt have to do this alone. ποΈ
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At Art to Healing, women and girls come together through trauma-informed creative and community-based programmes, using art, expression and connection as part of the healing process. πΈπ¨ Healing can happen individually β but there is something profoundly powerful about rediscovering safety, belonging and possibility alongside other women.