22/10/2026
FRIDAY – RECOVERY IS NOT LINEAR – 23rd NOV 2026. PTSD Peer Support online meet-up start times are listed below for the various regions.
8:00am NSW-VIC-TAS-ACT,
7:00am QLD
7:30am SA,
6:30am NT,
5:00am WA.
Meet-ups run for one hour.
When we say the recovery journey is not linear, we mean that healing doesn’t unfold in a straight, predictable line. It moves in waves, progress, pauses, plateaus, and setbacks, all of which are a natural part of recovery.
Trauma can change the way the brain functions, and this naturally creates challenges. As part of healing, the brain often needs to rewire and build new neural pathways. This means we may need to learn new strategies and coping skills, and it takes time for these to become integrated. Developing greater self-awareness is also an important part of recovery, because it helps us recognise when we’re becoming stressed, approaching overwhelm, or needing to take steps to keep ourselves safe. It also helps us to have self-compassion and patience which are both great recovery companions to have.
Recovery isn’t linear, and it takes time. Everyone’s process will look different because we are all unique. We approach trauma recovery with our own histories, strengths, vulnerabilities, and life experiences. Those differences shape how PTSD develops and how healing unfolds. It’s natural to see similarities in what people go through, both in the trauma itself and in the recovery journey, but each person’s healing will still be a unique experience. That’s why it’s important to try not to compare our healing journey with another person’s. Comparison can create pressure or shame, when in reality, every nervous system heals at its own pace and in its own way. Each person’s goals, pace, and definition of “better” are shaped by their history, their nervous system, their environment, their ambitions, desires and what safety and stability mean to them. Recovery isn’t a single path — it’s a deeply individual process. Recognising this allows each person to focus more fully on their own recovery journey, and for many, it may be the first time they consciously choose a direction rooted in wellbeing.
For me, the recovery process took a tremendous amount of effort, and I often felt exhausted and overwhelmed. There were times when it felt like I needed to take “recovery breaks from recovery” just to catch my breath. It was the first time I had ever truly prioritised my mental health and allowed myself to build my life from that foundation. I realised that my wellbeing had to be the starting point, nothing else could be stable until that was in place.
I felt fragile, so I had to connect more deeply with myself and pay attention to what was happening in my body and the thoughts moving through my mind. Noticing subtle changes helped me make small adjustments toward my wellness goals. I had to learn new skills, strategies, and techniques to support these gentle improvements, and each step required patience and self compassion.
At times I felt like I was making progress, other times I felt I was stagnant not moving in any direction and it was as if I was on a plateau. Sometimes I felt I was going backwards, like relapsing or regressing and now I can see in those times I was actually still moving forward and that that is part of the recovery.
The traumatic event is stressful, and the work of healing can also feel stressful, so having a caring support network makes a huge difference. Friends who could walk alongside me helped me get through the harder parts. Peer support was especially helpful for me. Being around people with lived experience gave me a level of understanding, comfort, inspiration, and hope that I couldn’t find anywhere else. They celebrated the little wins and the small increments of progress with me, and that alone made the challenges of recovery a lot easier for me.
With the experience of my “new” nervous system, I’ve had to learn how to reintegrate back into life using these new practical strategies and insights. This is an ongoing process, and I now know each step, no matter how big or small, sometime seemingly backwards and other times forwards, all continues to build resilience. There were times I felt stuck in limbo like sitting on a plateau halfway between two destinations. That feeling was frightening until I learned that plateaus are a natural part of healing. There were also times when a setback would hit, and it often felt like everything I’d gained had disappeared, and now I realise they’re not failure; they’re all part of the process. Recognising this made the journey feel less overwhelming and more human.
For me, this took time to understand. Most of my progress happened in small increments, and I had to learn how to recognise, value, and celebrate those tiny steps. I eventually understood that I could be doing well and struggling at the same time.
After going through this cycle a few times, I started to see that even when I felt like I was going backwards, I was still moving forward overall. That realisation helped me to accept the nature of the recovery process.
COST: FREE, we believe financial challenges should not be a barrier to accessing support. If you would like to contribute towards the running costs of this resource, we would be very grateful. You can visit our website donate page.
HOW TO JOIN THE ONLINE MEET-UP, from the PTSD Peer Support website.
*** PTSD PEER SUPPORT Join via the website.
STEP by STEP - INSTRUCTION TO ACCESS THE ONLINE MEET-UP
(from your computer, similar from mobile phone)
1. Visit the website
2. At the top of the page, click CALENDAR, then scroll down
to view CALENDAR, click on the date you would like to
attend. (check start times for your location)
3. Next click on the blue link labelled CLICK TO JOIN
4. Zoom platform will open - You can put your name in the
space "Edit your display name". Your camera will be on.
You can click on the camera icon to turn the camera off.
5. Click the blue - JOIN - button
6. You will be taken to a WAITING ROOM and the Moderator
of the Meet-Up will let you into the gathering.
7. Trouble getting access? Call 0478 022 022 for help
HOW TO JOIN THE ONLINE MEET-UP, using ZOOM website
*** ZOOM Join online meet-up via the ZOOM WEBSITE
1) go to zoom website
2) click on the word JOIN.
3) in the "Meeting ID" box put our meeting ID: 843 5871 1531
4) Then you can type your name into the display name box. This will be visible to other people in the meet-up. You will also be able to turn off your camera if you prefer.
5) then click join to enter the meet-up waiting room and the host of the meeting will admit you when the meet-up starts. (note you can arrive at anytime during the hour and join in.)
If you need any assistance or have any questions, please email or visit.
NOTE: This meet-up is not a Counselling, diagnosis or crisis support service. PTSD PEER SUPPORT is a mutual peer support recovery community for people with lived experience of PTSD, CPTSD, anxiety and depression. Any information shared on this site is shared purely as a resource and is not considered to be a substitute for professional mental health support. PTSD Peer Support encourages the use of evidence-based research on wellness strategies for PTSD, and CPTSD. For urgent crisis support call LIFELINE