21/08/2026
Are dads quietly expected to choose work over their kids? Jason stayed home to care for his children… and people wanted an explanation.
For Jason and Portia, shared care made sense.
Portia spent the first six months at home with each child. Then Jason became the stay-at-home parent, taking on the feeds, high chairs, first steps, mothers’ group and relentless everyday work of raising two small children.
But not everyone understood.
Years later, with their children now teenagers, Jason describes that time as invaluable. He would have done it forever.
Dads should not need to defend wanting to care. And families should not have to choose between income and giving both parents meaningful time with their children.
A full year of paid parental leave, designed to make shared care genuinely affordable, would give more families that choice, and help make involved fatherhood normal from the beginning.
We are The Parenthood: a national, not-for-profit advocacy group working to make Australia the best place in the world to be a parent.
We’re fighting for:
✔ One year of paid parental leave
✔ High-quality, affordable and accessible early childhood education and care
✔ Family-friendly workplaces
When parents are properly supported, children can thrive and communities are stronger.
Should more dads be comfortable with caring?