24/08/2026
Kids do well when they can 💚
Instead of “why won’t they do it?”, we ask “what’s getting in the way?”
A child who is struggling with an expectation might be overwhelmed, dysregulated, missing a skill, having trouble processing the information, unsure what’s expected, or dealing with a demand that just isn’t manageable for them in that moment.
When we start getting curious about what the child needs in order to succeed, we're able to troubleshoot and address barriers. When we address these barriers, we create the conditions for our children to do well and behaviours tend to fall away.