24/04/2026
Sometimes, despite having been in this cause for 13 years, I find myself thinking of things I've seen everyday in a completely new light. Yesterday I was reflecting on how historically, a woman's feelings, emotions, bonds and priorities have been trivialised, minimised and dismissed, in favour of what is considered 'logical' 'rational' and 'practical'. An almost paternalistic view of what a woman is allowed to prioritise in her life and experiences. Then I was thinking about how many women have been shamed about having a companion animal/animal in their care as a critical consideration in safety planning, having their disclosure of an animal bond dismissed. I wonder how many women learned to shut up and put up, because they were not taken seriously. The more we know now about the link between harm to animals and risk to human life, the more evidence we have for why safety planning for animals is critical to the wellbeing of humans experiencing violence but omg, women have been reporting this for decades. Is this just evidence yet again of the assumption that women are not entitled to access a full, joyful and emotionally bonded life because they are first and foremost to be of service and to not raise a fuss? It's just the zygote of an idea. I would love your feedback. Maybe I'm on the wrong track, but maybe this idea needs to be developed further....
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Yours with a joy in the love and beauty of the world we live in,
Anna