30/06/2026
Let’s unpack this comment… 👇
“Why the hell do you people insist on involving your sexual ideologies onto poor innocent children!! Bunch of pathetic GROOMERS… Disgusting bringing children to these sexual events.”
I actually think this comment highlights one of the biggest misconceptions about Pride and rainbow families.
Because… I genuinely think we attended very different events.
The children at our Rainbow Families stall were making rainbow pasta necklaces, playing with slime, digging in kinetic sand, colouring, chasing bubbles and making new friends.
If that’s your definition of a “sexual event”, then I think the conversation says more about the assumptions being made than what actually happened. The interesting thing is that children see heterosexual relationships celebrated every single day.
Princess movies.
Mum-and-dad storylines.
Wedding storybooks.
Valentine’s Day.
Engagement announcements.
Gender reveal parties before the baby has even developed kneecaps.
And nobody calls those “sexual events.”
Why?
Because deep down we all understand that children aren’t being influenced into becoming straight. They’re simply learning that different people exist and different families exist.
Pride is exactly the same.
For most children, Pride is face painting, music, bubbles, dancing, food trucks, rainbow flags, community and joy. It’s not tiny toddlers discussing sexuality. It’s children seeing families like theirs existing openly in the world.
👉 And representation matters far more than people realise.
Imagine being five years old with two mums and never seeing another family that looks like yours. Or having two dads. Or a trans parent.
Then imagine walking into Pride and suddenly realising there are hundreds of families just like yours.
That moment quietly says:
“You belong here too.”
Research consistently shows that LGBTQ+ young people who feel seen, supported and represented have better mental health outcomes than those who grow up feeling invisible or isolated.
Visibility isn’t about convincing children who to become. It’s about making sure every child knows that whoever they are, and whatever their family looks like, they deserve respect, safety and belonging.
And for children outside rainbow families?
Learning that some children have two mums, two dads, solo parents, grandparents raising them, foster families, blended families or adopted families simply builds empathy. That feels like a pretty important life skill.
One of my favourite quotes is:
“One day, I hope children won’t have to explain their family. They’ll simply say, ‘These are my parents,’ and that’ll be enough.”
That’s the future we’re trying to build. Not one where every family looks the same. One where every child knows their family belongs.
And honestly… after spending the day watching children covered in slime, chasing bubbles and proudly wearing their rainbow pasta necklaces, I can’t help but think that’s a future worth building.