23/07/2026
Meet Tobi. 🫧
Eight years old. Gippsland. Currently in bunny ears, holding his Easter bucket, and absolutely thriving.
Tobi was diagnosed with Level 2 autism in Grade 1, but like so many families on our wall, the road to get there wasn’t straightforward. His parents had been quietly watching, quietly wondering, while putting much of their energy into advocating for his brother through an ADHD diagnosis. It wasn’t until kinder that the pieces began to fall into place.
Autism can be an invisible disability. And that invisibility is its own challenge. People see a boy who can talk, who smiles, who holds a bucket of Easter eggs with the biggest grin you’ve ever seen, and they assume the rest must come just as easily. It doesn’t always.
What they don’t see is how much extra energy it takes. The eye contact that doesn’t come naturally. The extra time needed to process. The back-and-forth conversations that require real effort. The moments where sport or group activities feel harder than they look.
But what they also don’t see, and what his family sees every single day, is who Tobi actually is.
Imaginative. Curious. Full of joy. The cuddliest, kindest, most thoughtful little human. Obsessed with Lego, magnets, water play, playdough, sandpits, and getting completely and happily lost in his own creative worlds. So incredibly smart.
Imaginative. Curious. Full of joy. The cuddliest, kindest, most thoughtful little human. Obsessed with Lego, magnets, water play, playdough, sandpits, and getting completely and happily lost in his own creative worlds. So incredibly smart.
Now in Grade 2, he’s starting to notice some things don’t come as easily to him as they do to others. That awareness can be hard to watch. But his parents are right beside him every step of the way, learning, growing and advocating together.
His family said something that I want to leave here exactly as they wrote it:
“Different doesn’t mean less. It just means different, and he is perfect exactly as he is.” 💙
We think so too, Tobi. Welcome to the wall. 🫧
A little DIFF. A lot loved.