31/12/2025
In Mexico, it was my daughter’s first time in a place where comfort wasn’t a given.
Where the streets carried the scent of spice and dust, and where not every belly was full.
She didn’t say much at first, just watched.
And then her heart, that wild little compass of hers, found its north
in the eyes of stray dogs and hungry cats.
I remember my first time in an underdeveloped country, how it cracked me open to see people with so little when I had so much.
Now, I was watching her go through her own version of that awakening.
I asked her, “Do you want to feed them?”
Her eyes said yes before her voice did.
We bought bags of dog food and carried them like offerings.
Any stray we met became our companion, sometimes for minutes, sometimes for hours, sometimes shadowing us all day.
She’d stop in her tracks for a cat curled up in an alleyway, kneeling down to feed it, her fingers slow and gentle like she was touching something holy.
She has always wanted a cat.
But this was different. This was her soul meeting the soft, wordless need of another being.
In Byron Bay, where we live, her world is full of safe homes, full fridges, warm beds.
Here, she could see the difference, and instead of turning away, she turned towards.
That’s the part that undid me.
Watching her love the world exactly where it was wounded.
Watching her feed another creature, not out of pity, but out of knowing:
Your life matters. You are seen.
It was never about the dog food.
It was about the bridge her heart built in that moment, between abundance and need, between safety and survival, between her and the great, messy tenderness of this world.