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𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘱𝘪𝘴𝘵, 𝘐𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘤𝘺 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩 + 𝘞𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘳.
𝘕𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘴𝘺𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘮 𝘣𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘴𝘦𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴 + 𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘰𝘥𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵

𝘉𝘰𝘥𝘺-𝘉𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘱𝘺
𝘐𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘤𝘺 + 𝘊𝘰𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩
𝘚𝘢𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘚𝘦𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘍𝘢𝘤𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘰𝘳
𝘚𝘩𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘤 + 𝘈𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘭 𝘏𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨
𝘞𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯’𝘴 𝘙𝘦𝘥 𝘛𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘍𝘢𝘤𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘰𝘳

10/06/2026

I’m looking for women who have become dangerous.

Women who have learned to trust themselves.

Women who have stopped asking for permission.

Women who have spoken up when it would have been easier to stay quiet.

Women who have disappointed people by telling the truth.

Women who have left relationships, careers, communities, and identities that no longer fit.

Women who have rebuilt themselves more than once.

Women who have discovered that taking up space is not something they need to earn.

Women who are still becoming.

Dangerous Women is an intimate evening of storytelling, connection, and conversation.

A space for women to share the stories that changed them.

The stories we don’t often hear.

The stories that live behind closed doors.

The stories that carry wisdom, grief, humour, desire, heartbreak, anger, relief, and joy.

The stories that don’t always fit the version of womanhood we’ve been taught to perform.

Each gathering features a guest speaker sharing a chapter of her Becoming Story, followed by reflection, conversation, and connection.

There will be space to listen.

Space to laugh.
Space to cry.
Space to gush.

Space to talk about the things that are often considered taboo.

Space to be witnessed without needing to be fixed.

✨ Guest speaker storytelling
✨ Tea, chocolate and connection
✨ Community and sisterhood
✨ Honest conversations that matter

This is for women who value authenticity over perfection.

Women who are curious about life.

Women who want to hear stories that matter.

Women who are becoming.

📍 Byron Bay
📅 3rd September
🕕 6–9pm

If you’re interested in speaking please pm 🎤🌹

04/06/2026

When women sit together long enough,
something old begins to stir.

The masks loosen.
The armour grows tired.
The stories that have been
waiting in the dark find their
way to the firelight.

One woman speaks,
and another remembers.

One woman weeps,
and another feels her own heart soften.

What heals us is not only the telling,
but the knowing that we
do not tell our stories alone.

Beneath all our different
lives runs an ancient river of belonging,
and when women gather,
we find our way back to its banks.

03/06/2026

You had to poke the bear 🍑

03/06/2026

I’ve been paying close attention to women lately.

I sit with women every week. Women navigating heartbreak, illness, divorce, financial pressure, grief, motherhood, ageing parents, career changes, study, business, and the courage it takes to begin again.

What strikes me most is how many speak as though they are somehow falling short.

Yet when I look around, I don’t see women who are behind.

I see women carrying loads that would once have belonged to an entire village.

Many are working, parenting, caring for loved ones, managing households, maintaining relationships, staying financially afloat, looking after their health, trying to stay fit, youthful, attractive, emotionally available, and somehow keeping up with the endless messages about who they should be.

At the same time, they are moving through the great initiations of the female body itself. Menstruation. Fertility. Pregnancy. Birth. Motherhood. Perimenopause. Menopause. The many seasons of becoming a woman.

What astonishes me is how much has changed in such a short time.

Within a single generation, women stepped into universities, professions, leadership, business ownership, financial independence, and public life in ways many of our grandmothers never had the opportunity to.

The opportunities expanded, but much of the responsibility remained.

And still, so many women wonder if they are enough.

From where I’m sitting, women are doing something quite extraordinary.

I think we just don’t stop often enough to see it.

01/06/2026

The further I’ve gone along in my growth - the less interested I’ve become in all the woo woo.

Women already carry enough mystery, depth, intuition, and wisdom within them.

What I find myself craving now are spaces that feel grounded. Spaces where we can slow down, exhale, and be human together.

Places where we can share our stories without judgement, interruption, advice, or pressure to be anything other than what we are.

A chance to rest, receive, connect, and remember that we don’t have to carry everything alone.

I’ve been holding Women’s Red Tents for over a decade, it’s warm, it’s nourishing, it’s unpretentious and it’s free or pay by donation. Just bring something yummy to share and sit with us every fortnight.

🌹 Women’s Red Tent
📍 Ocean Shores
📅 Tuesday June 2nd

A space for honest sharing, nervous system care, connection, and the quiet medicine of being witnessed.

31/05/2026

The older I get, the less interested I become in spaces that promise to fix me, awaken me, activate me, or transform me into a better version of myself.

The more I’ve found myself drawn to rooms full of women speaking honestly about their lives.

Women sharing the things that are actually happening.

The joys.
The heartbreaks.
The questions.
The grief.
The exhaustion.

The moments that crack us open and the moments that put us back together again.

I think life initiates us far more deeply than any workshop, book, certification, or spiritual concept ever could.

We bleed.
We birth.
We mother.
We love.
We fall.
We survive.

We begin again.

And somewhere along the way, I’ve come to believe that one of the most powerful things a woman can experience is being witnessed by other women who simply get it.

No fixing.
No advice.
No pressure to be more evolved than you are.

Just honest conversation, deep listening, and the relief of remembering you’re not alone.

That is why I keep creating Red Tents.

🌹 Women’s Red Tent
📍 Ocean Shores
📅 Tuesday June 2nd

A space for honest sharing, nervous system care, connection, and the quiet medicine of being witnessed.

28/05/2026

People talk about anger like it is the problem.

I honestly think the real problem is that most people were never shown what healthy anger actually looks like.

Many of us grew up around rage, punishment, screaming, violence, blame, defensiveness, or emotional shutdown.

So we learned to fear anger.
Suppress it.
Disconnect from it.
Judge it.

We became the peacemakers.
The accommodators.
The ones who swallowed everything to avoid conflict.

But the body keeps score when we continuously silence ourselves.

The body knows when something feels wrong.
When a boundary has been crossed.
When something hurts.
When something feels unsafe.
When resentment is building.
When we are abandoning ourselves to keep others comfortable.

Anger is often the first signal.

Not violence.
Not cruelty.
Not abuse.

Protective energy.

The part of the nervous system that says:
“Enough.”
“This matters.”
“You do not get to treat me this way.”

I think this is why so many people become anxious, exhausted, numb, depressed, resentful, or disconnected after years of suppressing themselves.

The fire has nowhere to go.

Anger gives boundaries strength.

It protects what is precious.
It protects the self.
It protects life.

And healing is not about becoming endlessly agreeable.

It is learning how to stay connected to your heart while also staying connected to your fire.

27/05/2026

I’ll be holding another Red Tent on June 2nd, and for those who have been wanting to come along, this is your invitation ♥️

The Red Tent is a warm and welcoming space to slow down, breathe, and come back to yourself.

Rooted in the ancient tradition of women gathering in circle, this is a place for connection, reflection, rest, and honest conversation.

A space where you don’t have to hold everything alone.

Together we sit, share, listen, laugh, soften, and reconnect with ourselves and each other in an intimate setting.

There is no pressure to be anything other than who you are that day.

These evenings are about creating steadier inner foundations, caring for the nervous system, and remembering the importance of community, support, and being witnessed in our real experience.

Whether you are feeling full, overwhelmed, tender, disconnected, in transition, or simply needing time for yourself, you are welcome here.

I hold these spaces as a somatic therapist, intimacy coach, and shamanic practitioner with over twelve years of experience in somatic and ancestral healing work. My approach is grounded, relational, and deeply respectful of the body’s pace and wisdom.

This is not about fixing yourself. It is about creating space to listen more deeply to yourself in the company of other women, in a small intimate setting.

Details in bio 🌹

24/05/2026

Somatic k!nk was never only about sensation for me.

It became a way of understanding the body more honestly.

A way of noticing all the moments I disappeared from myself long before I ever entered a scene.

The freeze response.
People pleasing.
Overriding discomfort.
Performing comfort.
Smiling while disconnected.
Saying yes while my nervous system quietly shut down underneath me.

I think many of us learned very early that attachment was safer than truth.

So we adapted.

We learned to stay connected to others by disconnecting from ourselves.

And this is why somatic k!nk interested me so deeply.

Because eventually the question stops being:
“What do I want to do?”

And becomes:
“Can I remain connected to myself while doing it?”

Can I notice when my body tightens?
When my breath disappears?
When surrender becomes collapse?
When desire becomes performance?
When my yes is alive?
And when it is survival?

For me, this work became a practice of returning to the body again and again instead of leaving it.

Returning to sensation.
Returning to truth.
Returning to boundaries.
Returning to choice.
Returning to consent that is not only verbal, but embodied.

And honestly, that changed far more than my sexuality.

It changed the way I love.
The way I communicate.
The way I set boundaries.
The way I listen to myself.
The way I stay.

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Byron Bay, NSW
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