07/06/2026
Sadly, it would seem respect and integrity are nothing more than politically correct words to be used... not acted on.
The recent spike in physical altercations across community football is deeply concerning. I am also acutely aware of Australian media's disproportionate coverage of Football vs any other code.
Having said that, Year-on-year, the number of incidents continues to grow locally, but the past two weeks alone have been particularly disturbing. We have seen unacceptable scenes in NSW across U17 and NPL 2 matches, with both players and parents becoming involved. In Victoria a VPL or NPL coach, a former Socceroo (who you'd think knows better) entered the field of and attempted to aggressively intimidate a senior Referee - got 17 week suspension. In rugby league in NSW, there was even an incident where a Mother entered the field of U17 play where a fight was brewing... and this is only the reported ones.
This raises a serious question: - What are we not understanding?
- What are we simply not getting right that this behaviour is not only disappearing but it is actually increasing!
Are we seeing more reporting based on improved governing body disciplinary management processes? Maybe.
Is the world just a very cross, very fragile place, based on the increased pressures of living a basic life clashing with what we think should the simplicity of sport? but not so simple....
When adults—many of whom are educated and should know better—fail outright to demonstrate basic respect and self-control, it sets a most damaging example. I put it to to you that it is now very unrealistic to expect young players to behave appropriately when the behavior around them contradicts everything sport is meant to teach.
Football has an integrity problem worldwide... watch the Soccer world cup, watch the referee gets abuse by players and coaches.
This behaviour is completely ruining the game. We cannot recruit enough referees/umpires to sport because of this! We cannot retain which means the game is constantly chasing its own tail just to survive. It is absurd.
The people who claim to "love" the game so much, to be so passionate about it are the very ones destroying it simply because you think you know better or you think your child is always right...
Guess what? You are wrong! You are destructive.
Community sport should be a place for development, respect, and enjoyment. Instead, we are increasingly seeing aggression, entitlement, and a removal of any of standards.
This is totally unacceptable.
Governing bodies must continue take even stronger, more decisive action. Harsher penalties, consistent enforcement, and demonstrable ZERO tolerance for violence are essential. ZERO means never to be seen again.
Without meaningful, longer lasting, consequences, this behavior will continue to escalate. It is time to draw a clear line. Zero means Zero.
The integrity of community sport depends on it.