26/05/2026
Did this ever happen to you?
A dad apologized before touching his own baby.
Apologized.
He stood there staring into the incubator for a few seconds, almost as if he was trying to figure out whether he should reach in at all. Then he asked, “I’m sorry, but is it okay if I put my hand in there?”
It was a reminder of how unfamiliar the NICU can make parenthood feel.
Because parents should never have to question whether they are allowed to touch their own child.
But when your baby is surrounded by wires, monitors, pumps, oxygen tubing, and medical staff, fear starts to shape every interaction. It teaches parents to hesitate. To ask permission. To second-guess instincts that should have felt automatic from the very beginning.
People think bonding always comes naturally. But even something as simple as placing a hand on your baby’s back can feel terrifying at first.
And sometimes the bravest thing a parent does all day is finally reaching in anyway. 🧡
Photo: Dreamtime