The Pelo Project

The Pelo Project Empowering teachers, uplifting students.

The Pelo Project is an initiative that aims to bring emotional regulation and trauma informed support into rural and disadvantaged schools in South Africa, starting in KZN.

It’s tough getting on the same page in such a diverse country such as South Africa. Whether it’s age, culture, religion ...
18/06/2025

It’s tough getting on the same page in such a diverse country such as South Africa. Whether it’s age, culture, religion or race - our beliefs often clash.

The concept of mental health is a western one and is constantly evolving. Look at parenting and childhood development - we have seen huge changes in the last 30 years. Changes that need to be considered now. Research is growing around things like emotional regulation, attachment, discipline and punishment. Hitting children is something people don’t like being challenged on but it is something we need to talk about. But how do we find a language and sense of meaning that fits for everyone?

The way I see it - it lies in our emotions and our emotional system. The more we understand our emotional system in the same way we understand the physical system (or body and physical illness), the more we will start to understand the impact of trauma. Trauma in our physical body is widely accepted - if we break bones or have a seizure we understand the implications and the rehabilitation needed. What happens when we have emotional wounds though? How are we rehabilitating those?

We see violence at an all time high in this country. GBV, bullying, beatings and even murder or revenge killings. We see substance abuse taking lives and increasing crime. We see gangs and mafia type systems being set up. And we see violence towards children in so many ways. The emotional wounds that are festering and unhealed are being passed down to children as young as infancy. Teachers are beating students in many schools, particularly rural schools. Students beat each other up and many students are being beaten at home too.

There is no safe space to heal, to learn or to uplift for many young South Africans. The belief that children need punishment and violence in order to behave and achieve is a dangerous concept to uphold. The more a child is traumatised - the more likely they are to continue these cycles of abuse, poverty and substance abuse. Schools need to be safe havens for children and violence needs to be addressed.

❤️Paula Taylor 18/06/25

WHAT WE KNOW: ❤️ Poverty on South Africa is at inhumane levels❤️ Street drugs like Whoonga are killing people and turnin...
03/06/2025

WHAT WE KNOW:

❤️ Poverty on South Africa is at inhumane levels
❤️ Street drugs like Whoonga are killing people and turning them into slaves to the next fix - creating criminals, s*x workers and homelessness.
❤️Violence is becoming a way of life in rural communities and is rife in crèches, schools and homes.
❤️ GBV levels are some of the worst in the world.
❤️ Trauma is layered, complex and not being treated or healed.
❤️ Students are failing or not attending school due to numerous barriers and a lack of support. Many cannot learn in the violence.
❤️ Cultural barriers create racism, discrimination and mistrust.
❤️ Bullying is starting in pre schools
❤️ Children are hungry and neglected in many rural homes.
❤️ Sexual abuse is rife
❤️ People are angry and resentful - there is too much injustice and hardship

HOW DO WE IMPROVE THIS?

We start in the early years and uplift the schools. Education is vital for upliftment and empowerment. We need to up skill and support TEACHERS to create safe learning environments and to teach children things like:
❤️ EMPATHY
❤️ EMOTIONAL REGULATION SKILLS
❤️ CONFLICT RESOLUTION SKILLS
❤️ CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS
❤️ COMPASSION

- End violence in schools
- Instill hope
- Teach a love of learning

We are starting from the ground up - knowing what we would like to achieve whilst embarking on figuring out how to go ab...
29/05/2025

We are starting from the ground up - knowing what we would like to achieve whilst embarking on figuring out how to go about implementing strategies and creating resources.

The Pelo Project is aiming to make a difference in rural schools - one small step at a time. The first step is to think tank, brain storm and create. We have a group forming and will be starting soon. If you would like to join in and create alongside us- please reach out and I will put you on the WhatsApp group. No skills required, only compassion and a willingness to think outside the box. This is volunteer work and requires kindness and heart. Pelo means heart in Setswana.

Pop me a message if you’d like to join in:
0791233790 or email [email protected]
*Please note we are based in Howick KZN but input from people outside of this area via the WhatsApp group is welcome - we just can’t include you in meetings and practical work.

❤️Paula Taylor

When I first came back to SA from Australia I went to the North West province to stay out in Madikwe game reserve with p...
22/05/2025

When I first came back to SA from Australia I went to the North West province to stay out in Madikwe game reserve with people working in a lodge out there. I got asked to help in a little school for the children of lodge staff. In my time out there we got the little school registered and started a homeschooling curriculum. I became familiar with the education system in rural areas and worked closely Setswana people living in these rural villages.

I linked up with an NPO out there trying to help rural schools and headed out to do assessments on kids. This opened my mind to the enormous gaps and hardships these schools are facing. Children as old as 10 were unable to count or recognise shapes and colours in their own language. My heart broke. I then learnt more about the problems and barriers from teachers out in some of the schools and crèches in these villages and wanted to help. I created THE PELO PROJECT. Pelo means heart in Setswana. ❤️

I wanted to help rural schools and uplift the rural education system where possible. My expertise lie in emotional regulation, family systems, trauma and sociology. I know I have the skills to make a difference, however small. I moved to Howick - bringing this project to KZN and worked alongside people in the community to learn and expand my knowledge. I spoke on local radio, I spoke in schools and I went out to Shiyazibali informal settlement on our doorstep to meet people and other NPOs working out there.

Then Covid hit. And the needs evolved. The homeless were not getting food and I joined ranks with Hunger Busters to fight the system to provide food and support to our most vulnerable. Many were addicts and involved in petty crime. I wanted to create a program to bring addiction support to Howick but was faced with so many challenges and resistance that I had to hand this over to the municipality - and let it go without succeeding in providing addiction services. I was also burnt out and a target for so many people to blame for the addicts behaviour and crime. It’s been a journey to get to a point of wanting to work in the community again.

The time has come though, to reinstate The Pelo Project. I felt the fire in my belly when I supported a young lady who was trying to get her matric at 24 years old whilst being a single parent to a 2 year old, caring for her terminally sick and at times delusional and violent mother, and struggling to survive on donated food and resources. She failed her first term despite being extremely intelligent and I learnt that she was being beaten daily by both students and TEACHERS. Her little child was also being pinched and physically abused at the crèche. I felt I needed to think about how to help in rural schools again.

The Pelo Project is starting small but will aim to support teachers to create safe and non violent schools that are trauma informed and uplifted with skills/resources to support the array of trauma and hardship being presented in students. Schools have the potential to turn things around in our country and the violence needs to end. We are creating the mental illness, substance abuse, crime and violence in both family’s and schools. In time I hope schools can be a support to families too. Education is key in upliftment and trauma prevents learning. You can’t help a lot of the adults at this point but we can make a difference with early intervention and prevention in children. Teachers need support and new ways of dealing with what they are facing.

I am starting from the ground up - small but with heaps of knowledge and experience. If you would like to join me and help me (and the big hearted earth angel Jan Hankey) to formulate action plans and work on ideas to get started - please get in touch. I will make a WhatsApp group and we can all meet over a cuppa ☕️ to kickstart this.

❤️Paula Taylor
0791233790
[email protected]

19/05/2021

❤️OVERVIEW OF THE HOWICK WHOONGA PROJECT COLLABORATIVE MEETING - THURSDAY 13/05/21 ❤️

Announcing the Howick Whoonga Project's primary goal and mission - TO BRING IN SERVICES TO HOWICK.
In other words we need a full time branch of SANCA in Howick. I'd love a full time branch of FAMSA too (family and marriage South Africa) if we can swing it. It's imperative we have ongoing and established social and addiction services in our growing town. I can't, however, do this advocacy alone - I need help Howick. Here is an overview of where I am at with it all:

The Howick Whoonga Project (HWP) formed in March 2020 during the worst of lockdown in the pandemic. Judy Bell called me to propose taking on this demographic as the need was evolving and expanding rapidly. The lack of social services in Howick was highlighted beyond our imagining during this time and we saw restrictions to feeding our starving and rough living populations.

Rob Askew (retired decorated cop and former LOVE Howick Co-director) fought tooth and nail to get food and aid to our Howick homeless and was met with enormous resistance. A contentious feeding event at the Howick West Stadium saw Howick Whoonga Project start a collaborative journey with Hunger Busters. JAG (crime prevention, justice and advocacy group) was also formulated at this time and a 3 way partnership began to form.

It became evident early on that this social crisis would require a multi disciplined and collaborative approach. In other words - it's too big for one person or even one organization or agency. The homelessness and drug addiction has gone beyond crisis point in Howick.

Whoonga is a drug that is predominantly black tar heroine. It is mixed with things like soap powder and rat poisen and is very cheap and accessible to purchase. You can also get hooked after one hit. The stomach cramps, physical distress and pain from withdrawals can be deadly. Many have reached rock bottom and have no where to turn. There is NO SUPPORT AND THERE ARE NO SERVICES IN HOWICK. The closest option is SANCA in pmb and they are swamped with a massive support area and demographic.

Originally I had hoped to bring in my own service with a team of volunteers. I called this the pilot program. We selected 8 participants deemed ready for support and motivated to participate. John Fourie and Rob Askew joined me on a leadership team and I formulated a mental health team with over 10 professionals of different roles and skills. On paper it looked good as a treatment plan, in reality it proved to be mission impossible.

Barriers started to show themselves. The biggest being the transient and unpredictable nature of our homeless demographic. Circumstances evolved more quickly than I could keep up with. Our participants were too unstable and their lives too chaotic and full of risk. Without stability and safety, we cannot work on healing trauma. Catch 22, we needed to face the fact that we ideally need a shelter or space to rehabilitate these addicts.

Barriers we've identified include but are not limited to:

🔸Addicts work as car guards, car/taxi washers, recyclers and beggars etc. They can't leave their posts during the day or they will lose the post to someone else. They also can't afford not to earn.

🔸Violence is a way of life and many of our homeless end up in hospital or badly injured from being the targets of just about everyone.

🔸There are no public facilities such as toilets or showers or even water fountains or taps to get clean water. Our homeless smell really bad and most have lost all dignity and pride in themselves. This makes it hard to integrate them into any respectable community space or area, including churches and NPO's. Finding a premises or space to base ourselves has become impossible as no one wants this demographic anywhere near them.

🔸In order to utilize our partnership with SANCA and have their clinic nurse come to Howick once a week etc, we need a premises or space to operate from.

🔸Drug lords are intricately woven and powerful members of the community, they do not want any upset to the status quo. Whoonga (Nyaope) is big business in South Africa. It serves many people to keep these homeless guys addicted and this makes the work risky for anyone on the ground and involved. It is also very tough on the soul to witness so much hardship. This makes it hard to get active volunteers.

🔸Many people have a lot to say but very few want to get their hands dirty. It is disheartening to try and do this work when you can't rally troops. For the most part, I am a one woman army and I don't have the capacity to continue in this way. This is also something I do on the side in a volunteer capacity, my paid work has to be a priority. Realistically we need something established and professionals such as social workers and addiction counselors need to be paid.

Mentioning a few of the barriers, you can see why nothing is able to get off the ground outside of once off events, behind the scenes advocacy and interactions with addicts whilst going out for food distributions with Hunger Busters. I have had to restructure my thinking and I've come to one solution and mission for HWP:

BRING IN SERVICES FOR ADDICTS TO HOWICK.

We need a SANCA in Howick. Not only staff from pmb SANCA coming once a week (that's a good interim plan) but a full branch with paid staff and a premises. We have many derilect municiple buildings to utilize and ideally we could get FAMSA to join the mix too, bringing family support to Howick simultaneously. FAMSA come through once or twice a week but are based in pmb. Howick is expanding and our homeless and disadvantaged populations are vast.

Instead of trying to create these services via HWP, we are going to change the mission and advocate for Howick to receive their own addiction service. One that is already brilliant, well established and attached to the Department of Health. What we need is to collaborate in this advocacy. I'd like every person working with or alongside this social crisis to join forces with me to make this happen. I'd like to drive this through the DSD if possible with NPO, private and community support.

Whoonga addiction impacts us all and the problem will become more dire if we don't create sustainable solutions that aim to both manage the crisis and prevent it happening in the first place. Until the crisis is managed, we can't work on early intervention and prevention. The very best way HWP can assist our town is to fight for the services we need to help our addicts. SANCA is not just for homeless and rough living people, it is there for all addicts who can't afford help. We need SANCA to expand.

I am going to need some help to make this happen and I'm calling anyone who can assist. Collaboration is key - I can drive this but I can't do it alone. Together we are strong Howick, let's get this done!

Thank you so much to all those who attended last night and inspired my thinking even further. We have a lot of heart and passion in this town and we need sustainable solutions to get behind. Collaboration and unity is the only way I can see a light at the end of this dark tunnel.

Sending out love, gratitude and hope. We are a mighty town if we tap into our abundance of resources in this passionate community. It's time to drive some much needed change. We need services for our people.

As the mission takes a new turn, I would like to acknowledge my leadership team, Rob Askew and John Fourie. These two men have mentored and guided me through this journey and I couldn't have done it without them. As we are no longer providing the services, the leadership team is adapting to advisory panel and the 3 way partnership between Hunger Busters, JAG and HWP has been adapted accordingly. We work as allies.

Lots of love and a hearty hug,
Paula Taylor - HWP coordinator.
0791233790

03/02/2021
08/10/2020

Howick Whoonga Project - Support numbers for families and addicts:

💚SADAG 24hr substance abuse helpline: 0800 12 13 14 or SMS 32312
❤️Lifeline and r**e crisis PMB: 033 342 4447 or Lifeline national number: 0861 322 322
💙Suicide crisis line: 0800 567 567 or SMS 31393
💜Ambulance and fire brigade: 10177
💛Emergencies and police: 10111
💖SANCA PMB: 033 345 4173
💚 NICRO (traffic offences and DUI's) 24hr hotline: 072 184 6483

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Howick

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Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
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