30/09/2026
As we come to the end of Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, I want to acknowledge that the battle doesn’t end because the month does.
For families still fighting, tomorrow the fight continues. The treatments, the hospital visits, the scans, the fear and uncertainty don’t disappear when September ends.
And for those of us who have lost a child to cancer, neither does the hurt.
We are learning to navigate this broken world without Alexander in it. And although Alexander has passed away, I still believe his story is one of HOPE.
Not because we got the ending we prayed for.
We didn’t.
But because his life was so much bigger than the cancer that took him.
He was a boy who fought courageously.
A family fought beside him.
A community wrapped themselves around him.
And a piece of this world changed because they knew him, loved him, or simply knew of him.
When your child faces a mountain, watching them climb it is one of the hardest things imaginable. You would give anything to carry it for them. To take the pain, the fear, the unfairness. But you can’t.
So you climb beside them.
And sometimes, despite every prayer, every treatment, every bit of hope and every bit of fight, the mountain does not end where you desperately wanted it to.
Sometimes you can’t climb beside them anymore.
And then somehow, you have to keep walking without them.
That is childhood cancer too.
It is not only the brave photos, the gold ribbons and the ringing of bells. ❤️🩹
So September can end.
But I will not stop talking about childhood cancer.
I will not stop saying Alexander’s name.
I will not stop fighting for the children who are still climbing their mountains.
And I will not allow cancer to have the final word in Alexander’s story.
Because cancer took his life.
But it did not take what he left behind.
Alexander left something behind.
He left courage in people who watched him fight.
He left kindness in people who came together for him.
He left a family determined to keep saying his name.
And he left us with a reason to keep doing good in this world.
Alexander was here.
He mattered.
He changed us.
And as long as we are here, we will make sure that something good continues to grow from a life we would have given anything to keep. 🎗️💛