20/05/2026
Update on Jesse here in Washington at the NIH.
Today marks a massive milestone in his journey — Day 100 post-transplant. This is the end of the transplant protocol, and today Jesse underwent his 100-day blood tests to check his chimerism levels, medication levels, immune function, and overall health to determine whether he is finally eligible to come home.
The good news is… Jesse has ticked all the boxes so far!
Over the past few weeks, he has been battling some skin GVHD (Graft vs Host Disease), which has happened during the tapering of certain medications. As the doctors slowly reduce some of the immune suppression, the donor cells and Jesse’s body are still learning to recognize each other. With LeeAnn being his donor, her healthy immune cells are now living inside Jesse’s body. Those cells are naturally trained to fight anything foreign, while Jesse’s body also reacts to those new cells. The immune suppressants are there to calm that process long enough for the body to eventually understand that it is no longer fighting an enemy.
Despite this challenge, Jesse is doing well.
The most incredible part of all of this is that Jesse no longer has DOCK8 deficiency.
Jesse has been able to stop many of the chronic medications he depended on before transplant. He no longer requires IVIG treatments, and he has stopped several of the preventative antibiotics, antifungals, and antiparasitic medications he previously needed. His immune system is still currently suppressed to prevent GVHD, so we still need to be extremely careful to keep him healthy and away from infections, flu, and viruses while his body continues to recover.
Today he had 16 vials of blood drawn, and every possible marker will be thoroughly checked over the coming days. While we are still waiting on some of those detailed results, all of the major markers have come back positive. He has hit every important milestone.
Every single day further away from transplant lowers the risk of complications, and with each passing day, we breathe a little easier. We still have to remain extremely disciplined with medication schedules and follow every precaution carefully, but for the first time in a long time, it truly feels like we are moving forward.
Once we return home, Jesse will continue follow-up care with Dr Ashley and transplant specialists, who will work closely together with the NIH team in Washington to monitor all of his blood work and recovery progress. In August, we will need to return to the NIH for a 6-month follow-up, where they will do a full-body assessment — follow ups will continue at the NIH every year for 5 years.
We have now been in the United States for five months. Without question, this has been the hardest season our family has ever walked through.
Watching Jesse go through treatment, chemotherapy, isolation, procedures, fear, and pain — while not fully understanding why all of this was happening to him — has been difficult. Being separated from Sadie for five months has been another kind of pain entirely.
Watching her grow up through video calls has been devastating at times. She has changed so much while we’ve been away. She’s gone from nappies to no nappies, she’s talking beautifully now, and every time we see her, she looks a little older. It feels like we’ve missed so many moments that parents never get back.At times it honestly felt like the world had stopped for us here in Washington, while life everywhere else carried on as normal.
The emotional toll of this journey is something very difficult to explain. The anxiety, the uncertainty, the trauma, the constant highs and lows — it has all been far bigger than we ever imagined. There were moments where it felt endless. Moments where getting through one single day was enough. But throughout all of it, we kept reminding ourselves: one day at a time.
Because when it comes to your children, nothing else matters.
You put your life on hold. Your work, your business, your plans, your comfort — everything becomes secondary to your child.
We are beyond grateful for every prayer, every donation, every message, every share, and every person who stood with us through this process.
A MASSIVE thank you to Kevin and Liana for all the support! It has been the hi-light of Jesse’s stay here, the count down to when his Aunty and uncle are coming to visit starts the day after they leave!
We are also incredibly grateful to the NIH and the unbelievable team of doctors, nurses, and specialists here. The level of professionalism, care, and detail throughout this entire process has been extraordinary. From endless screenings, swabs, dental checks, scans, bloodwork, and precautionary measures — every single step was handled with care and precision to give Jesse the best possible outcome.
More than anything, we are just excited to come home.
For months now, Jesse has asked us almost every single day, “When are we going home?”
After transplant, we told him he needed to get through 100 days, and every milestone became another countdown, another small celebration, another step closer. Now, after five long months, home finally feels close enough to touch.
Thank you again for all the love and support!