09/06/2026
Charles Pretorius was my one of my maternal great grand fathers. For many years he toiled at sea as a fisherman, yet he couldn’t swim to save his life. Our great grandfather known to us a “Derra” was a loving, blunt, straightforward rough around the edges kind of man. Really someone from the old school, his younger sister was married to a minister of the Independent Dutch Mission Church , he never called her by name and insisted on referring to her as “Juffrou”. Derra was known for his fine gardening skills and the family house in 29th Avenue in Elsies River was always decorated with the finest flowers from the garden throughout the year. Fruit trees stood elegantly and abundantly. His garden was the envy of many. Derra was not very good at remembering dates, he lived in a time when there was no such thing such as digital reminders on cell phones and other devices, yet he remembered his wife’s birthday. At the back of his garden stood a massive red Poinsettia tree and every year at the end of May when it started to bloom and its leaves turned red he would speak to my great grandmother whom he called ‘Baba’ and would say to her “Baba dis mos weer amper jou verjaarsdag”. Her birthday was on 9 June. Nature served as his reminder and calendar. This annual gesture of Derra is indicative of someone who not only observed nature but someone who’s spirituality was complemented by creation and who had a respect for God our Creator, someone who took time out and in the stillness of creation encountered the living God. Many of us live our lives habitually at a pace where we hardly notice our surroundings, a pace where we hardly notice the joys and sufferings of our brothers and sisters. The majority of the readers of this article have not met my late great grandfather, but, I urge you to allow the example of his life to inspire you to a greater awareness not only of life, but also of God who gave it to you.
Article penned by Fr. Craig Abrahams
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Derra died on 21 February 1995 and his wife died on 8 March 2001.