Ony’s Angels

Ony’s Angels Raising & supporting our severely autistic son Onyx, & his twin sister Lavender in rural South Africa

Hey 👋 I am working closely with an NPO in Grabouw called House of Grace. They house mentally and physically disabled chi...
16/08/2026

Hey 👋

I am working closely with an NPO in Grabouw called House of Grace. They house mentally and physically disabled children. I desperately want to get each of the children an electric toothbrush to improve their oral hygiene.
I currently need to purchase 10.

They are on discount at dischem currently. I’m going through to Cape Town next week. I want to purchase the toothbrushes then & deliver them on the 26th of August.

I’m rallying this Beautiful village. Is there anyone who would be willing to donate the money for a toothbrush or two?

Please DM me privately for banking details 🙏

Beautiful pair of scatter cushions made by me. ✨ Made with donated, thrifted and upcycled material✨ Removable inserts✨ M...
04/08/2026

Beautiful pair of scatter cushions made by me.

✨ Made with donated, thrifted and upcycled material

✨ Removable inserts

✨ Machine washable

✨ 40cm x 40cm

✨ R400 with the inserts OR R300 without the inserts *for the pair*

✨ Delivery cost depends on whether taken with or without the inserts

💙🪽 All proceeds go to supporting my son with severe autism. Follow our journey at *Ony’s Angels* on Facebook 💙🪽

I used to think love was measured by hugs, kisses, and the words, “I love you.”Autism has completely changed that.Love c...
24/07/2026

I used to think love was measured by hugs, kisses, and the words, “I love you.”

Autism has completely changed that.

Love can look like a little hand reaching for yours because you’re their safe place.

It can look like someone bringing you a random object because they wanted to share a moment with you.

It can look like sitting next to you in comfortable silence.

It can look like carefully putting the dog’s food back into her bowl because helping simply felt like the right thing to do.

Onyx may not tell me he loves me with words, but he tells me every single day in ways that are easy to miss if you’re only looking for the kind of communication the world expects.

Autism hasn’t taken love away. It has simply taught us to recognise a different language.

And once you learn to speak that language, you realise it’s been saying “I love you” all along. 💙🪽

Before I became Onyx and Lavender’s mom, I thought love was enough.I thought if you loved a child deeply, everything els...
14/07/2026

Before I became Onyx and Lavender’s mom, I thought love was enough.

I thought if you loved a child deeply, everything else would fall into place.

The truth is, love is the foundation—but it doesn’t magically make autism easier. It doesn’t stop the sleepless nights, the meltdowns, the endless appointments, or the uncertainty about the future.

There are days when I feel completely defeated. Days when I cry after the kids are asleep. Days when I wonder if I’m doing enough.

But then there are moments that remind me why we keep going.

A spontaneous cuddle.
A new skill they’ve worked so hard to learn.
A smile that lights up the whole room.
A tiny victory that most people wouldn’t even notice.

Autism has taught me to celebrate progress instead of perfection. To slow down. To find joy in the smallest moments. To measure success differently.

If you’re a parent on this journey, I hope you know this:

You don’t have to have it all together.
You don’t have to pretend it’s easy.
You can be exhausted and grateful at the same time.

Both things can be true.

And if you’re someone following our journey, thank you. Every kind comment, every share, every word of encouragement reminds us that we aren’t walking this path alone. 💙🪽

A sneak peak at one of my latest creations. Not finished yet. Having so much fun quilting and hoping to start selling so...
09/07/2026

A sneak peak at one of my latest creations. Not finished yet. Having so much fun quilting and hoping to start selling soon.

A patchwork quilt, just like our patchwork family 🥰💙🪽

08/07/2026

Different Doesn’t Mean Less

Onyx may not use words to tell us he loves us.

Instead, he reaches for our hand.
He leans against us.
He smiles.
He laughs.
He invites us into his world in his own beautiful way.

Communication isn’t just spoken words. Love is spoken in a thousand different languages. 💙🪽

07/07/2026

Autism Doesn’t Clock Out

Autism doesn’t take weekends off.
It doesn’t disappear after school.
It doesn’t stop when everyone else goes to bed.

For families like ours, it’s a 24-hour, 7-day-a-week journey filled with love, exhaustion, laughter, and resilience.

If you know an autism family, check in on them. Sometimes the smallest act of kindness can make the biggest difference. 💙🪽

One way that you can support us is by purchasing one of our hilarious enamel pins. For sale at Catz at Play in Barrydale...
06/07/2026

One way that you can support us is by purchasing one of our hilarious enamel pins.

For sale at Catz at Play in Barrydale.

Zoom in and read the pins for a good giggle 🤭

Every little bit helps make a difference in supporting our precious Ony and Lavender 💙🪽

06/07/2026

The Little Things

Sometimes people think progress has to look big to matter.

But in our home, progress looks like making eye contact for a second longer. Holding a hand. Trying a new food. Cleaning up a spilled bowl of dog food without being asked.

These moments may seem small to the world, but to us they’re everything. 💙🪽

Ony’s stims include repetitive vocalisations. This can become overwhelming for the people around him, but it’s important...
04/07/2026

Ony’s stims include repetitive vocalisations. This can become overwhelming for the people around him, but it’s important to remember that it is helping to soothe his nervous system 💙🪽

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