03/06/2026
DO People Still Honour Their WORD?
Over the years, both personally and professionally, I have had the privilege of helping many people through Lifeline Zululand and in my private capacity.
We have welcomed volunteers, supported families, signed off community service hours, provided counselling, opened doors, shared resources, and given our time freely.
We never expected anything in return.
What has become increasingly difficult, however, is the number of people who promise support, resources, donations, repairs, sponsorships, or assistance—and then simply disappear.
The volunteer who was passionate until the reference letter was issued.
The parent who promised support once community service hours were completed.
The person who offered resources for our programmes, only to become unreachable afterwards.
The helper who promised maintenance and repairs but never returned.
It's not about the ice cream, the park home, the repairs, or the donation itself.
It's about honouring your word.
When promises are made to a charity and not kept, it is not the organisation that loses. The real loss is felt by vulnerable people in our communities who could have benefited from comfort packs, victim empowerment services, valuable time which could have been used for counselling, support programmes, and other resources.
If circumstances change and you can no longer assist, that is understandable. Life happens. A simple phone call, message, or honest conversation is enough.
Integrity is not measured by what we promise. It is measured by what we deliver.
Before I end, I must also acknowledge and thank those individuals, businesses, organisations, and community members who have supported us over the years and continue to do so.
Some have given resources, some have given time, some have shared their skills, and some have quietly stood beside us without ever seeking recognition.
You know who you are.🙌
Your support has helped us continue serving vulnerable individuals and communities when resources were scarce and challenges were many.
🙏We are deeply grateful for every promise kept, every act of kindness, and every contribution—large or small.
You remind us that integrity, compassion, and community spirit are still very much alive.
Thankfully, despite the disappointments, we continue. We will keep serving, keep helping, and keep showing up for our community.
But I do find myself wondering:
Do people still honour their word???
Lifeline Zululand offers free counselling , trauma debriefing, prevention programmes e.g. suicidal ideation prevention and talks /dialogues/ seminars and abuse / domestic violence.
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