CatchU

17/03/2026

Well done for speaking out Gemma and raising awareness, Jades Law was supposed to stop this happening, hopefully authorities will think more about protecting childrens rights and stop perpetrators doing further harm ###x

Gemma Ahern was three when her dad killed her mum - and at six she had to live with him again.

15/03/2026

Mother’s Day can be a difficult time for children and young people who are missing their mum, grandmother, or someone who was like a mum. Big feelings are normal, and gentle support can help them remember in their own way:

💜Younger children: activities such as crafts, drawings, or stories to express their feelings.
💜 Primary-aged children: writing a card or letter, or sharing memories.
💜 Teens: journaling, exploring creative outlets, having open conversations, or engaging in meaningful activities.

There’s no right or wrong way to remember.

15/03/2026

Today, on Mother's Day, I honour the memory of my beloved mother — a woman whose love was deep, whose spirit was strong, and whose presence shaped my very being. Though she is no longer physically with me, her love continues to light my path every day.

My mother was a beacon of kindness and courage, someone who gave all she had to nurture and protect her family. Her love was a sanctuary — a place where I always felt safe, valued, and cherished. Even in the face of unimaginable hardship, her warmth and strength never faded.

While life took a tragic turn, and the pain of her loss is something no child should ever endure, her memory remains a powerful force in my life. It drives me to create support and healing for children like me, who have lost their mothers too soon to circumstances beyond their control.

To my mother, thank you. Thank you for your love, your sacrifices, and the lessons you taught me through your life. Your spirit is with me in every step I take, and your love is the foundation on which I build hope and healing — not just for myself but for others who need it most.

Today, and every day, I honour you.

Happy Mother’s Day, with all my heart.

15/03/2026

This Mother's Day we're thinking of everyone who is missing their mother, mothers who are bereaved of a child, those who would have loved to be mothers, and all those who can't be with their mother today, for whatever reason.

For bereavement support, guidance and information, please visit our website: childbereavementuk.org

14/03/2026

I was recently attacked by a man simply for supporting the important work of Violence Against Women (VAW). As usual, his response was, "What about male victims?"—a line I hear far too often.

Let me be clear: VAW focuses on women because they are overwhelmingly the victims of domestic abuse, and that focus is vital and necessary.

At the same time, I recognised a serious gap in support for children bereaved by domestic abuse. The majority of these children lose their mothers to male perpetrators, while some lose a parent when the mother was the perpetrator. All of these children are often forgotten—and that’s why I founded CatchU: to fill that critical void. I do not blame VAW for forgetting them—that’s simply not their focus.

If you’re frustrated that I support women and children bereaved by domestic homicide, rather than attacking me, ask yourself why you’re not channeling that energy into creating or joining organisations that support male victims. They do exist, and there are groups focused on them.

I’m not here to argue or compete over who deserves attention—I’m here to do the urgent work that no one else was doing. Let’s respect each other’s roles, support those in need, and stop tearing down those trying to make a difference.

08/03/2026

A haunting memoir of survival, Daughter of a Murderer unveils one girl’s journey from a childhood shattered by domestic homicide and abuse to a life dedicated to transforming support for children left behind—illuminating the hidden trauma and resilience behind a silenced tragedy.

08/03/2026

🌸 International Women's Day 2026 🌸

Today, we celebrate the strength, courage, and resilience of women everywhere. At CatchU CIC, we especially honour survivors of domestic abuse—those women and children who have faced unimaginable pain but continue to stand tall and find hope.

Domestic abuse shatters lives, but through support, understanding, and community, healing is possible.

I am Diane, CEO of CatchU CIC, and I know firsthand the pain that domestic homicide leaves behind. My own story inspired me to create support for children bereaved by domestic abuse—because no child should be left to face trauma alone.

📚 You can help make a difference.
By purchasing my book, Daughter of a Murderer, at books.by/catchu (https://books.by/catchu), you are not only reading my personal journey but also directly supporting programs that will provide hope and healing to children affected by domestic abuse.

Let’s stand together to create a safer, kinder world for women and children. Your support matters. Your voice matters. Your choices matter.

A haunting memoir of survival, Daughter of a Murderer unveils one girl’s journey from a childhood shattered by domestic homicide and abuse to a life dedicated to transforming support for children left behind—illuminating the hidden trauma and resilience behind a silenced tragedy.

30/12/2025

The Director, Management, Staff, and all those under our care wish a Happy Christmas to everyone who follows and supports us.🫶

May the light of Christ shine brightly in your hearts and homes this Christmas. 🎄✨
You remain in our thoughts and prayers, and we wish you blessings now and always. 🧡

24/12/2025

As we approach Christmas CatchU would like to acknowledge all the children who have been bereaved by domestic abuse and face a day without those that mattered most, we see you and hear you, you are not alone, we understand your silence, reaching out is difficult but we want you to know we are always here, we simply support each other ###

19/12/2025

Have you signed and shared this?

We call on the UK Government to introduce legislation that explicitly prohibits perpetrators of domestic abuse from being granted custody or unsupervised access to their children if it has been established that their abuse has likely contributed to the other parents su***de.

02/12/2025

Most of CatchU's members have struggled with this for many years.

Going no contact or low contact with your family can be a necessary step for your safety and wellbeing. 💚

No one would ever choose to do this without a strong reason. Setting boundaries is a valid and important way to protect yourself.

You are allowed to prioritise your safety and mental health.