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04/09/2026

For all who walk a different path of grieving…..

Rachel Volentine | Liminal Legacy End-of-Life Doula “Maybe this is a hot take, but grief doesn’t have to make you wiser, stronger, more grateful, or more purposeful to be worthy of the space it takes up.

I think it’s true that sometimes loss changes us in ways we eventually value. Sometimes we find meaning in it. And sometimes it just really fu***ng hurts.

As a death doula, I don’t believe grieving is a problem we need to solve or a story that needs a satisfying ending.

You can miss what was. You can wish it had never happened. And you can still build a really beautiful life around that truth 💚

The hope isn’t that grief eventually *becomes* something beautiful... it’s that beauty can keep finding a place beside it.

🌿 - Rachel”

23/07/2026

💔

Dimmy and Keira Forever 💜

Hi Keira,
Dimmy died today…
but I guess you already know that…

He never was the same after you died.
You were his person.

He waited at your bedroom door for months.

Until he finally understood that you were not coming back.

After spending his whole life sleeping next to you, he crawled into bed with me every night..

And our hearts broke and healed together,
me trying to make sense that he had outlived you.

It’s bittersweet knowing that if you were still alive you would have been absolutely devastated today.

I know you were waiting for him at the rainbow bridge…
and now you two are together again and somehow that brings a little peace in the heartbreak.

Becky Bradley | Grief, Signs & Life After Death

23/07/2026

Every birthday and holiday - we share a meal together…never forgotten…

“Cemetery picnics were once a common practice in the 1800s and early 1900s in the United States. The rural cemetery movement in the US began on the East Coast during the 1800s with Mount Auburn Cemetery in Cambridge, Massachusetts (established in 1831), Laurel Hill Cemetery in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania (established in 1836), and Green-Wood Cemetery in Brooklyn, New York (established in 1838) were considered the nation’s first three rural cemeteries.

Since cities lacked parks, cemeteries were the closest things, then, to modern-day public parks. People began to use cemeteries as places to take a Sunday walk or to hold family gatherings, and picnic together.

Families arrived at the cemetery gates in Sunday finest on weekends. New Yorkers strolled through Saint Paul’s Churchyard in Lower Manhattan, bearing baskets filled with fruits, ginger snaps, and beef sandwiches.

They gathered at family plots and sat on the gravestones or the ground to eat.

If you decide to picnic with a lost loved one, remember to check the cemetery rules posted at the front or check their events schedule in case they have planned picnic events coming up!”
Rosie Grant

06/05/2026

“The pain is devotion still alive”



05/05/2026

A love so deep, only grief can hold….


30/01/2026

Inside George Mark Children’s House, families find pediatric palliative care that supports them through serious illness and loss — care that remains scarce nationwide.

08/01/2026

Always with us…🪽



07/01/2026

Connection



What an insightful perspective.

We like to say that “the opposite of grief is connection”. It doesn’t mean that grief ends, but there is true power in connecting with others in the midst of it.

Speaker credit: Sherri Mandell

This is fascinating. Who knew?!!!! In 1705, an Irish woman named Margorie McCat was believed to have died from a fever a...
06/01/2026

This is fascinating. Who knew?!!!!

In 1705, an Irish woman named Margorie McCat was believed to have died from a fever and was buried quickly to prevent the spread of illness.

She was laid to rest wearing a valuable ring that her husband John, a doctor, could not remove because her finger was badly swollen, making her grave an appealing target for body snatchers. Later that same evening, before the grave had fully settled, grave robbers began digging and, unable to remove the ring, decided to cut off her finger.

When blood was drawn, Margorie suddenly awoke from a coma, sat up, and screamed. What happened to the grave robbers is unclear, with one version claiming they fled and never returned to their trade.

Margorie managed to climb out of the grave and walk home, where John heard a knock and remarked that if his wife were still alive, he would swear it was her. When he opened the door and saw Margorie standing there in burial clothes, bleeding, but alive, he collapsed from shock and passed away suddenly. He was later buried in the grave meant for her.

Margorie eventually remarried, had several children, and when she truly passed away years later, she was buried at Shankill Cemetery in Lurgan, Ireland, where her gravestone reads, “Lived Once Buried Twice”.

Stories like Margorie’s are often cited to explain why families once tied a string to the finger of the deceased, leading to a bell placed above the grave. If the person revived and moved, the bell could be rung, giving rise to the phrase “saved by the bell”. This fear also explains the presence of graveyard watchers, who walked the rows listening for any signs of movement, and the custom of waiting 3 days before burial. That waiting period became known as a wake, allowing family and friends to watch over the body to be certain the person was truly gone.

18/11/2025

Matte black glass buttons were yet another option for mourning clothing.
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