16/12/2025
If you are struggling to process the events of this past weekend and wanting to talk to you children in a useful way, this post has many links for children and teens. We all need to work to create a safer and more loving world.
With such depraved displays of malignant narcissism coming from the nation's highest office on a regular basis, it's more important than ever for parents and educators to embrace the work of raising a generation that rejects cruelty as a form of strength.
That means naming cruelty when we see it -- not excusing it, not laughing it off, not pretending it's just politics. It means having honest conversations with our children: explaining why this is wrong, why we don't mock people in pain, why real confidence doesn't require tearing others down, why someone who uses a family's worst moment to congratulate himself is not strong -- he's an empty shell of a vindictive little man.
It means showing them, every day, that kindness and empathy are not weaknesses to outgrow but strengths to cultivate.
We become what we tolerate in our leaders. The question is what we're willing to teach the next generation to tolerate.
For those choosing to teach compassion over cruelty, our blog post "25 Children's Books That Teach Kids to Be Kind" offers a place to start: https://www.amightygirl.com/blog?p=19359
For a simple yet powerful picture book that reassures kids that the world is filled with helpful and friendly people -- and serves as a counterpoint to the darkness of these times -- we recommend "Most People" for ages 4 and up at https://bookshop.org/a/8011/9780884485544 (Bookshop) and https://amzn.to/3wKwNzL (Amazon)
For books for children and teens about the importance of standing up for truth, decency, and justice, even in dark times, visit our blog post, "Dissent Is Patriotic: 50 Books About Women Who Fought for Change," at https://www.amightygirl.com/blog?p=14364
For powerful books for tweens and teens about girls living in real-life oppressive societies throughout history where leaders often used hate and division to rule, visit our blog post "The Fragility of Freedom: Mighty Girl Books About Life Under Authoritarianism" at https://www.amightygirl.com/blog?p=32426
Thank you to Maria Shriver for sharing this powerful reflection.