09/01/2026
🎀 THANK YOU, THE GRAVES FOUNDATION 🦋
There are some people and organizations whose generosity goes far beyond a donation. They give because helping others is simply who they are — and The Graves Foundation is the perfect example of that.
The Graves Foundation holds an incredibly special place in our hearts at the Be A Vanessa Foundation. They are our largest donor, and their continued generosity makes it possible for us to hold the special events that allow us to honor Vanessa, remember her beautiful life, and continue sharing the kindness and love she showed to others.
But what makes The Graves Foundation so special isn’t just what they give — it’s how they give.
They help people and organizations throughout so many of our local communities, often quietly and without ever asking for recognition or praise. They don’t help because they want their name on something. They help because they genuinely care about people.
Every member of their board has a servant’s heart. They are some of the kindest, sweetest, most giving people you could ever meet. They continually step up when someone is hurting, when a family needs help, when an organization has a need, or when something good can be done for a community.
And so much of what they do happens quietly behind the scenes, where very few people ever know about it.
That says everything about their hearts. 🦋
Our foundation’s motto in Vanessa’s honor is:
Be Happy. Be Humble. Be a Helper. Be a Vanessa.
And when we think about the words “Be A Helper,” we can’t think of a better example than The Graves Foundation.
They don’t just talk about helping others. They live it.
Without their incredible generosity and belief in what we are doing, we simply could not hold many of the special events that mean so much to our family and allow us to keep Vanessa’s memory and spirit alive by helping others.
To everyone at The Graves Foundation: please know how deeply grateful we are for you. Thank you for believing in our mission. Thank you for believing in our family. Thank you for helping us honor Vanessa. And most importantly, thank you for everything you quietly do for people throughout our communities every single day.
The world needs more people like you.
From our entire family and everyone at the Be A Vanessa Foundation, THANK YOU. 🎀
You truly are the definition of “Be A Helper.”
Be Happy. Be Humble. Be a Helper. Be a Vanessa. 🦋