11/03/2022
Survivors of brain injury often struggle to be seen, understood and accepted for the wholesome person they are. We aren’t here just to survive: maybe we made it through the shock and physical triage… and, yes, that is survival… but there is so much more to us and to LIFE. This day, right now, is a new chance in life and a new challenge in discovering how our wholesomeness includes our injury but isn’t defined by it. Some of us are still on emotional and physical training wheels trying to get through the day without despair.
So please don’t judge us: we are already vulnerable. Don’t tell us that we are just fine: our pain may not be visible but it is real. And please don’t talk down on us — we are slowly rising from the ashes, and it may take a while but We Are Powerful. Be patient for a little longer. Stay still. Allow yourself to see us as We are: broken, scared, brave, confused, lonesome, hopeful, kind, alive
— wishing to belong, to love and to be loved — in all of our wholesomeness. Healing is the gift of love. 🙏❤️