12/10/2026
Humility is often misunderstood. It isn’t thinking too highly of yourself, and it isn’t thinking too lowly of yourself. It’s seeing yourself accurately before God.
Real humility has a kind of self-forgetfulness to it. Instead of constantly evaluating yourself, comparing yourself, protecting your image, or needing to be noticed, your attention shifts toward God and toward others.
And that’s why humility is so essential to authentic community.
You can’t really lift others up if you’re constantly asking, “How am I being perceived?” You can’t love people practically if every relationship is filtered through what you’re getting from it. Humility frees you to notice what someone else needs, to celebrate their progress, to listen without making the conversation about yourself, and to serve without needing recognition.
The most humble people usually aren’t preoccupied with whether they seem humble. They’re too focused on loving God, caring for people, and asking, “How can I help this person take the next step?”
Ask yourself honestly today: in my relationships, how much of my energy goes into how I'm being perceived? Bring that to God, and let Him turn your attention toward the people right in front of you.