13/03/2026
The Gift of the Council Table: Why Letting Go is Your Greatest Strategy
On Christmas morning, while the world was opening boxes, I was given a gift that money couldn’t buy. I had a dream—a "Council Table" meeting for my soul—and I woke up with a clarity that finally brought me peace.
I want to share the wisdom from that table with you, because I believe it’s the key to how we walk into this Year.
1. The Shifting Ground of Loyalty
The most striking thing the Council told me was this: "If people can change their faith in God, they are capable of changing their loyalty to you, too."
Read that again.
We often break our own hearts trying to hold onto people whose foundations are constantly shifting. If someone’s relationship with God is unstable, we shouldn't be surprised when their relationship with us is, too. It’s not a reflection of your worth; it’s a reflection of their anchor. When you realize this, you stop taking their exit personally.
2. Handymen vs. Contractors
In the dream, there was a metaphor about settling. Sometimes, people choose a handyman when they really need a contractor. * A handyman is for a quick fix, a patch-up job, or a temporary season.
A contractor is for a total build, a deep foundation, and something that lasts.
Many of us are "contractors." We are builders. We are deep. But we get frustrated when people choose a "handyman" because it’s cheaper, easier, and requires less change.
The Lesson: Move forward with a clear message. Don’t be upset when people settle for less—just make sure you don't stop being a builder just because they weren't ready for the construction.
3. The Divine Freedom of the "Wrong" Path
I sat at that Council Table feeling broken, yearning for more answers, but I left with closure. I realized that God gives every soul the freedom to choose—even if they choose the wrong path.
Part of our alignment for this Year is accepting that change is inevitable. People will move toward us or away from us, and both movements are part of a divine plan. Releasing past attachments isn't just about "detachment"; it’s about trust. It’s believing that by letting go of what was, you are finally opening your hands to receive what is meant for you.