26/08/2026
There are people you remember. And then there are people whose absence you feel.
Gil Neary is one of those people. Two years ago he left us, far too early. Today, we remember him and celebrate his life.
For decades, Gil was a larger-than-life presence in Fire Island Pines. Funny, generous, outrageous, loving and completely unapologetic about who he was, Gil brought the ‘Hell Yes!” wherever he went.
Gil’s warmth and acceptance were legendary. When he saw you, he said hello. When he welcomed you into his home, you felt like family. And when Gil threw a party, you knew you were in for a night to remember.
Gil loved the Pines. He served on the FIPPOA Board, supported countless community organizations and causes, mentored newcomers, celebrated the Invasion in spectacular fashion, and for more than 25 years opened Reflections for a birthday party that became the unofficial beginning of summer. He was all about living out, loud and proud, making the Pines – and everyone around him – brighter and bolder.
When Gil died suddenly in 2024, it felt as though a light had gone out in the Pines. His Celebration of Life was a dance party, packed with people who loved him – just the way he would have wanted it.
Gil may be gone, but his presence can still be felt on every boardwalk, every pool party and every time a queen slips into a pair of high heels.
You can read Gil’s Pines Profile "A Builder of Community and Culture” at this link: https://www.pineshistory.org/the-archives/gil-neary-community-leader-philanthropist-and-cultural-bridge-builder-1957-2024
p.s. To the incredible members of our community, we welcome you to send us any of your favorite pictures of Gil to add to our archives.