06/19/2026
I know pronouns can be a loaded topic for some people. This was an interesting take from Better Ally Actions.
"Don’t insist on pronoun sharing
While it’s important to share our pronouns, we shouldn’t require others to do so. (I’m thinking of meetings where someone says, “Everyone, introduce yourself and tell us your pronouns.”)
As Jeannie Gainsburg, author of The Savvy Ally: A Guide for Becoming a Skilled LGBTQ+ Advocate, explains:
“Asking people directly about their pronouns puts people on the spot, making it very uncomfortable for them if they don’t want to share. It can also offend some people who think that their pronouns should be obvious.”
Thoughts?
I DO include pronouns in my email signature, but am awful at remembering to share them in person when meeting someone, or when introducing myself in a group. I'm trying to be better about doing it automatically so it makes it easier for my gender diverse friends to share theirs without making them stand out. The advice above applies to group meetings and the like.
I will still try to get better about sharing mine just by my own choice, but do you think we should stop asking everyone to do it in group settings?
And remember what Thumper said. If you can't say anything nice...😉
