06/09/2026
Family traditions often take on a new meaning after the loss of a baby. Whether your loss was through miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss, finding special ways to remember your child can keep their memory woven into the fabric of your everyday life.
In our family, we celebrate Catherine’s birthday each year and have embraced Minnie Mouse as our special symbol for her. No matter where we travel, Minnie allows us to bring a piece of Catherine along on every adventure. We also cherish a curio cabinet filled with the thoughtful gifts and mementos that friends and loved ones gave us after her passing—a beautiful reminder that Catherine’s life continues to touch so many hearts.
This year, alongside our two rainbow babies, we started a new tradition by growing, hatching, and releasing butterflies at Catherine’s gravesite. Watching the tiny caterpillars transform into beautiful butterflies became more than just a project—it became a gentle way to teach our young children about growth, hope, love, and letting go. As each butterfly took flight, it was a quiet reminder that love never leaves us and that beauty can emerge even after profound loss.
Every family’s journey through grief is unique, and the traditions we create help ensure our babies are never forgotten.
We would love to hear about the meaningful ways you honor your little ones. Join us at our next in-person support group on July 6th at Advocate Christ Medical Center, where we can share our stories, our memories, and the special traditions that keep our babies’ legacies alive. ❤️🦋