06/10/2026
“By This We Know…”
Jesus tells us that love is how the world will recognize His disciples.
Not by our certainty alone.
Not by our convictions alone.
Not by the strength of our opinions.
But by love.
“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” — John 13:35
Encounter is one of the places where love becomes real.
It is risky because it asks us to see another person not as a category, a threat, a project, or a problem to solve, but as someone made in the image of God. It asks us to let our principles become flesh.
Again and again, Jesus meets people across lines others had drawn: the Samaritan woman, Zacchaeus, the l***r, the tax collector, the Roman centurion, the grieving, the sick, the overlooked, and the ashamed.
He does not encounter people as abstractions. He sees them. He restores dignity. He calls forth life.
“So the Word became flesh and dwelt among us.” — John 1:14
This is the pattern: love does not remain disembodied. Love comes near.
At Sozo, we are paying attention to encounter because formation does not happen only through information. We are formed by what we are willing to see, who we are willing to love, and whether we allow another person’s presence to interrupt the stories we have already decided are true.
Encounter does not mean abandoning wisdom. It does not mean ignoring harm or pretending difference does not matter. Jesus was full of both grace and truth.
But encounter does mean refusing to let fear have the final word.
So we ask:
Where have I reduced a person to a label?
Where am I defending a principle without practicing love?
Where might God be inviting me to see someone more fully?
The risk of encounter is that we may be changed.
But that is also its grace.
Because love is not merely something we believe. Love is the way we become whole.
If you’d like to read more, we invite you to read this longer reflection on Substack about encounter, worldview, principles, and what actually happens when we meet one another. It is not a simple argument for agreement. It is a reflection on what happens when our ideas, assumptions, fears, and convictions are tested in the presence of another human being.
https://romanitahairston.substack.com/p/what-we-lose-when-we-stop-discovering
The Risk of Encounter