10/11/2026
Happy National Coming Out Day!
Coming out is something people have a lot of varied opinions and emotions on. Some have had great experiences with it, others have been outted in horrible ways, still others aren't out for a variety of reasons. So as we go thru our day today here's a few reminders for those celebrating loudly or quietly, for those still in the closet, for allies, and for those considering coming out.
Coming out isn’t safe for everyone.
It’s ok to not be out. You deserve safety.
Coming out is a very personal decision & harder for some than others.
You are valid even if you aren’t out.
It’s ok to not have or want a label.
It’s ok to come out again if you’ve learned more about yourself.
Coming out is usually not a single moment and looks different for everyone.
You do not owe anyone your coming out story.
If someone comes out to you the single best thing to do is be kind. It’s not about you. It’s about them.
No matter who you are, whether out or not, for whatever reason that may be, please know that we see you. You are valid and we are so happy you are here.
Please remember that the LGBT National Hotline is here for you and we have a hotline dedicated to supporting those considering coming out.
The LGBT National Coming Out Support Hotline is available
Mon - Fri:
11 AM - 8 PM/PST
2 PM - 11 PM/EST
&
Sat:
9 AM - 2 PM/PST
Noon - 5 PM/EST
Call us at 888-OUT-LGBT (888-688-5428)
Or message us at
LGBTHotline.com/chat
Our trained volunteers are here to offer free confidential support and help you find resources local to you.
Thanks for being here and remember you are valid.
Happy National Coming Out Day!