04/03/2026
Thank you, Tell Somebody, for sharing survivor stories! *Slight correction*, the younger photo of me was taken about 6 months after the kidnapping 🥲 Thank you to everyone who has commented or shared this piece 🙏🏾 And thank you, Aleesha, for all of the work that you do, for educating families, and spreading awareness about child SA!
When I was a kid, I was kidnapped and s*xually assaulted for hours. Luckily I escaped!
Tell Somebody — It Could Save a Life. When I was 10 years old, my family met a man who said he was “turning his life around.” He carried a Bible, and presented himself as someone who wanted to do good. He befriended my mother and our family, and what we thought was kindness slowly revealed itself to be a nightmare. We didn’t know then, what he meant when he said he wanted to change his life. We didn’t know he was a convicted s*x offender against other children, long before he ever crossed paths with me. When I was 14, he kidnapped me and for nearly 10 hours, I was assaulted and feared for my life. By the grace of God, I escaped the next morning, and helped put him behind bars. It was later, that I learned I wasn’t his only victim. That is why it is so important to tell somebody 🗣️a parent, a teacher, a counselor, a friend, or an advocate. If something doesn’t feel right… If you or someone you know is being hurt… If your intuition keeps whispering that something is off… Speak up!
Even though my abuse was not prolonged over years, surviving that incident, and ultimately helping put him in prison, saved other children. I don’t know if “proud” is the word, but I do know my survival stopped him. I became the means through which a dangerous person, was finally removed from the community. I touch on this in my book, “Faith and the God Fairy” by Ladonna Boyd, available on Amazon. It explores the dissociation I experienced during my kidnapping and the assault. In those moments, I held onto thoughts of the people I loved. That love, helped me endure what he was doing to me. It kept me fighting for the possibility of seeing my family again. It reminded me that my spirit was still alive inside me, even when I felt disconnected from my body. Having that second chance at life, has shaped everything I do. Finding purpose, building my nonprofit, engaging in community service, speaking out, and sharing my story with others ❤️‍🩹 all of this has supported my healing journey. I survived. And now I use my voice so others know that they are not alone. Speak up. Because silence protects the abuser, and speaking up protects others. You might be the voice that saves a child. You might be the reason someone survives!
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Child abusers, please stop and seek therapy and God.
Parents, talk with and believe your children. ❤️
Survivors, seek therapy. 💪🏽
(To share your story of abuse, message me)
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