She Fest

She Fest To highlight and celebrate a diverse array of LGBTQ+ women
• We understand how vital it is for women to be seen as we are, for who we are.

She Fest is a woman-centered event that celebrates and supports the talents and contributions of women while fostering meaningful connections within and between the LGBT and larger San Diego communities. We are a volunteer committee of LGBTQ+ women and non-binary folks centering the diverse experiences of LGBTQ+ women and people who feel at home with “she.” Together, we foster community connection

s for San Diego’s LGBTQ+ women and intentional allies; we combat homophobia, transphobia, and the patriarchy; and, we highlight and celebrate the spectrum of “she.” We are explicitly inclusive and affirming of trans women and non-binary folks. GOALS:

To cultivate meaningful connections
• Our roots are based in the recognition that one of the most radical acts of self-love is to connect with community. We strive to create space and experiences that cultivate and sustain meaningful connections for LGBTQ+ women through joy, empowerment, community care, and plain old fun. Our community is filled with incredible innovators, business owners, performers, and artists whose endeavors, achievements, and talents we aim to spotlight. We forge community by elevating and celebrating each other. To denounce that which would divide us
• We use an intersectional feminism approach to our work, understanding that racial justice, economic justice, disability justice, immigration justice, environmental justice, reproductive justice, and gender justice are all LGBTQ+ issues. Additionally:

• We refuse the mainstream message that women should view one another as competition.

• We denounce trans exclusionary radical feminist (TERF) ideology and transphobia as violent and unacceptable forces that oppress and divide rather than protect us.

• We fight against white supremacy and racism in all their forms.

• We recognize gender as a construct that we exist within and outside of.

• We uplift and support intersex folks by honoring their lived experiences

To implement accessibility as a fundamental right
• We believe that meaningful connection should be accessible to everyone. We partner with ADA compliant locations for in-person gatherings, provide ASL interpretation, provide image descriptions and accurate English captioning, and utilize sensory warnings to improve the accessibility of our virtual and in-person gatherings. We recognize that there is more to do and are committed to centering access, language justice, and disability justice in our programming and events by collaborating with deaf and disabled leaders. To honor our past and participate in our future
• We recognize the invaluable work of our LGBTQ+ elders before us and their countless contributions that have made it possible for us to live today more freely.

• We recognize the work of today’s youth to question convention, buck tradition, and pave new trails. We want our efforts to embody the best of both. Our committee has no age restrictions on its members and we strive to create programming that is both led by and for youth, adults, and elders. HOW WE MANIFEST:

We host empowering and accessible workshops; design events and content that uplifts LGBTQ+ women entrepreneurs and entertainers; build opportunities to connect LGBTQ+ small businesses to their audiences; and facilitate social events that bring people together. Our year-round efforts culminate in an annual flagship event that brings over 1,000 LGBTQ+ women and allies together to kick off San Diego’s Pride week in July. ALLYSHIP:

We welcome allies who want to celebrate the diverse experiences of women and non-binary folks by amplifying our voices and centering our experiences. ACKNOWLEDGMENT:

Acknowledging our past includes recognizing that we are on stolen land. Our annual flagship event and many of us who organize our events occupy stolen land that was never ceded by the Kumeyaay people. The Kumeyaay people were forcibly removed through violence and atrocious human rights violations, and face disproportionate disparities that persist today. We urge folks to join us in learning more about Kumeyaay history, to join and follow the efforts of the Kumeyaay Defense Against the Wall, and take steps to stand in solidarity with Indigenous-led groups.

Join us from 1-4pm on Saturday August 8th at Malcolm X Library for another community skills-building day, this time focu...
07/30/2026

Join us from 1-4pm on Saturday August 8th at Malcolm X Library for another community skills-building day, this time focused on q***r renters!

1-2:30 - Know Your Rights, Know Your Power by Tenant Councils of San Diego

2:30-3:15 - Discussion: Living well in community with others (bring your questions and insights, or just listen in and learn from your peers)

3:15-4:00 - Enjoy any of the following:
➡️ Ask a Q***r Handyperson with Kelley -owner & Tarah Marie
➡️ "In search of roommates" mix & mingle
➡️ General mix & mingle
➡️ Bring zines and other materials to share and browse what others bring

***revents

✨Save the date for our next Community Skills-Building day! See you on Saturday, August 8th at 1 p.m at the Malcolm X Lib...
07/08/2026

✨Save the date for our next Community Skills-Building day! See you on Saturday, August 8th at 1 p.m at the Malcolm X Library. Stay tuned for details✨

NOTE: LOCATION CHANGEShe Fest's Q***r Speed Friending Fundraiser will now take place at AXIS San Diego in Hillcrest (147...
06/04/2026

NOTE: LOCATION CHANGE

She Fest's Q***r Speed Friending Fundraiser will now take place at AXIS San Diego in Hillcrest (1475 University Ave, SD, CA 92103)

Same date and time (4-7pm June 6, 2026)

We appreciate your flexibility with this venue change and hope you can spread the word and join us Saturday!

Huge thank you to for their support in looking for a new venue, we will definitely be back for more events in the future. Check out their page for more info and stop by Mujeres to support.

This event will now be indoors, masks are encouraged.

ASL interpretation provided.

Join us for:
- 4 "friending" rounds
- fun "personal ads" on the mic
- crafts
- great onsite food and drink options
- a raffle
- a caricature station
- a "heated duet" by Roddy Ramrod & Throbbin Hood
- a special performance by Scott Cooties revealing our new name!

See you Saturday :)

***revents ***rsandiego
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Introducing the second drag performance at our 4th annual Q***r Speed Friending Fundraiser at  A special performance by ...
05/24/2026

Introducing the second drag performance at our 4th annual Q***r Speed Friending Fundraiser at

A special performance by including the reveal of our new name!

(Don't forget to vote for the final name at the link in our bio!)

Tickets are $20 suggested donation, but no one will be turned away for lack of funds. RSVP today at the link in our bio!

***rspeedfriending ***rsandiego

Introducing the first of two drag performances at our 4th annual Q***r Speed Friending Fundraiser at  A heated duet by R...
05/24/2026

Introducing the first of two drag performances at our 4th annual Q***r Speed Friending Fundraiser at

A heated duet by Roddy Ramrod and Throbbin Hood 🔥🏒

Tickets are $20 suggested donation, but no one will be turned away for lack of funds. RSVP today at the link in our bio!

***rspeedfriending ***rsandiego

💙Building Community Heroes: First Aid and Community Emergency Response⚡️Saturday, March 7th from 3-3:50 p.m. at the Miss...
02/20/2026

💙Building Community Heroes: First Aid and Community Emergency Response
⚡️Saturday, March 7th from 3-3:50 p.m. at the Mission Valley Library. Grab your free ticket at the link in our bio!

In this workshop, board-certified Critical Care Registered Nurse Sav B. will cover: basic first aid for non-medical professionals, Narcan administration, recognizing signs of an emergency, and how to respond appropriately to facilitate quick and safe care for a person in need.

💜Bystander Workshop: Reporting & Documenting ICE; Defending Our Rights⚡️Saturday, March 7th 2-2:50 p.m. at the Mission V...
02/20/2026

💜Bystander Workshop: Reporting & Documenting ICE; Defending Our Rights
⚡️Saturday, March 7th 2-2:50 p.m. at the Mission Valley Library. Grab your free ticket at the link in our bio.

City Heights Defense Committee will provide tools and best practices for safety and support when ICE shows up in our neighborhoods. Learn how to recognize ICE cars and agents, document their activity and support those who have been targeted, based on our work on the ground to promote safety and de-escalation. During this workshop, we will role play different senarios to practice using our voices to develop skills as bystanders during an ICE interaction. SURJ San Diego will also provide local community resources for families who are impacted. Together, we’ll offer next steps and ways to get involved.

💕Communication Skills for Community Care⚡️Saturday, March 7 from 1-1:50 p.m. Grab your free ticket at the link in our bi...
02/20/2026

💕Communication Skills for Community Care
⚡️Saturday, March 7 from 1-1:50 p.m. Grab your free ticket at the link in our bio!

The q***r community often talks about “chosen family.” That makes relationships beautiful, really freaking intense, and often very high stakes. In this workshop, we’ll build skills to stay connected without self abandoning self, shutting down, or attacking. Folks will leave with two practical tools to navigate conflict, connection, and repair in interpersonal relationships.

✨Community Skills-Building Day✨March 7, 1-4 pm, Mission Valley Library. RSVP today at the link in our bio! 1-1:50 pm: Co...
02/18/2026

✨Community Skills-Building Day✨
March 7, 1-4 pm, Mission Valley Library. RSVP today at the link in our bio!

1-1:50 pm: Communication Skills for Community Care. Presented by Liz Barajas, MFT
2-2:50 pm: Bystander Workshop: Reporting & Documenting ICE; Defending Our Rights. Presented by City Heights Defense Committee and SURJ San Diego
3-3:50 pm: Building Community Heroes: First Aid and Community Emergency Response. Presented by Sav B, RN-CCRN

Bring zines, flyers, or books to share at our community resource table! See you there💛

Save the Date💛She Fest is hosting an afternoon of workshops on Saturday, March 7th. The workshops are aimed at helping u...
02/04/2026

Save the Date💛She Fest is hosting an afternoon of workshops on Saturday, March 7th. The workshops are aimed at helping us all better show up for our communities. Workshop details, location, and time will be announced closer to the date. See you there!

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4350 El Cajon Blvd
San Diego, CA
92105

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