03/26/2026
TRIGGER WARNING: The following post references violence, medical trauma, and a link that contains images and video related to a hate crime. Please proceed with care.
A personal note from the Executive Director.
For years, I’ve used this platform to advocate, organize, and help build stronger support for LGBTQ+ businesses and our broader community.
Today, I’m asking that same community to show up for me.
In 2024, I was one of the victims in the targeted gel/polymer pellet shootings at LGBTQ bars in San Diego. I was shot in the eye, and since then I’ve been dealing with PTSD, ongoing treatment, and medical complications that have impacted my ability to work and sustain myself.
This past Monday, my worst fears were confirmed—my eye has permanent damage, and I’ll need ongoing lifetime care to monitor risks to my vision, including the very real possibility of blindness.
In addition, nearly two years later, I remain in treatment at Sharp Mesa Vista Psychiatric Hospital in San Diego, where I continue to receive 3–4 hours of intensive therapy per day, 5 days a week, and an additional 2–4 hours a week of outside treatment, including equine, art, or group therapy.
To put this into perspective, I now attend more hours of mental and medical care each week than I worked before I got shot.
This has been one of the hardest chapters of my life—but I’m still here, still doing the work, and still fighting to get back to stability.
I don’t usually ask for help like this—but right now, I need it.
My GoFundMe goal has been raised to $65,000, and I am just $15,000 short.
Approximately $6,000 will go toward housing and utilities for the next 3 months. Another $4,000 will go toward transportation to and from my daily appointments, and $5,000 will cover co-pays, storage, moving, and other immediate needs.
If you’ve worked with me, supported Equality Business Alliance, or believe in the work we do, I’m asking for your support.
If you can donate, share, or support in any way, it would mean more than I can put into words.
👉 Donate or share here: https://gofund.me/0a8a4d817 (or via the link in our bio).
Thank you so much.
— Oxean Eddie Rey