Second Saturday Divorce Workshops

08/25/2026

Some days you'll just be surviving. That's okay. Surviving counts. Keep going. 💛

08/20/2026

Can ChatGPT be your lawyer, financial advisor, and therapist during your divorce... all for free? 🤔

Short answer: not quite.

AI can be genuinely helpful for divorce basics. Think explaining unfamiliar terms, helping you prep questions for your first attorney consultation, or drafting a tricky email to your spouse. It's available at 2 a.m., and it won't judge you.

But it can't tell you how a judge in your state will rule. It can't protect your retirement account in a settlement. And it definitely can't replace a therapist who actually knows your history.

We wrote a new article on exactly where AI helps, where it falls short, and why your divorce team still matters. Worth a read. 👇

https://www.secondsaturday.com/can-ai-help-with-divorce/

Can AI help with divorce? It can, but only so far. Learn what AI tools do well, where they fall short, and why local professionals still matter.

08/18/2026

Back-to-school season hits differently when you're co-parenting. 🎒 What happens if you and your ex can't agree on which school your kid should attend?

It usually comes down to legal custody. If you share joint legal custody, education decisions (which school, public vs. private, even homeschooling) generally have to be made together. Sole legal custody means one parent gets the final say.

If you're stuck, you've got a few paths forward: mediation, working it out through your parenting plan, or asking the court to decide based on your child's best interests. Judges typically look at where the child has attended before, each parent's location, the cost, and what the child actually wants (especially for older kids).

Bottom line? Sorting this out early, and ideally together, saves everyone a stressful scramble come August. 🍎

08/13/2026

Did you know an estimated 15 to 20% of people are neurodivergent? That includes ADHD, autism, and other neurological differences. 🧠

If you or your spouse are neurodivergent, divorce can bring some unique challenges. Communication styles that felt normal in your marriage might get misread by attorneys or mediators. Sensory needs matter too. A courtroom or mediation session can be overwhelming.

A few things that can help:

✅ Look for a neurodiversity-affirming attorney or mediator
✅ Put communication preferences in writing when possible
✅ If you have kids who are neurodivergent, build their needs directly into your parenting plan

You know your brain (and your family) best. The right divorce team will work with that, not against it.

08/11/2026

Ever wish divorce could skip the courtroom drama entirely? Enter collaborative divorce. 🤝

It's a team approach where you, your spouse, and a group of professionals (think attorneys, a financial specialist, maybe a divorce coach) all commit upfront to reaching a fair settlement without ever setting foot in a courtroom.

It's not for everyone. It works best when both spouses can communicate directly, manage their emotions, and genuinely want an amicable ending, especially if kids are involved.

Curious if it might be the right fit for you? We wrote a whole guide breaking it down. 👇

https://www.secondsaturday.com/collaborative-divorce-guide/

Here’s what you need to know about whether you’d be a good candidate for collaborative divorce. ,

08/06/2026

Divorcing with teenagers in the house? They're not little kids, but they still need you to lead. A few things worth keeping in mind: 👇

* Breaking the news: Tell them together as parents if possible, be honest without oversharing adult details, and give them room to react however they need to.

* Scheduling: Teens have jobs, sports, and social lives. Rigid 50/50 schedules that worked for a 6-year-old often don't work for a 16-year-old. Build the schedule around their life, not the other way around.

* Post-divorce: Keep rules consistent between both households, don't lean on them for emotional support, and watch for signs they're struggling in silence (withdrawal, sleep changes, dropping activities).

Older doesn't mean easier. Your teen still needs you to be the parent. 💛

08/04/2026

Think your DMs are private? During a divorce, they might not be. 👀

"Discoverable" means your ex's attorney can formally request it as evidence, through a subpoena or a legal request for records, even if you never hand it over yourself.

Here's what can be requested:
* Text messages and emails
* Social media posts (even "deleted" ones)
* AI chat conversations (yes, even ChatGPT)
* Venmo, Zelle, and PayPal history
* Fitness tracker and smartwatch data
* Ride-share and delivery app histories
* Smart home device logs

The short version: if it's digital, assume it could end up in front of a judge someday. Worth keeping in mind before you hit send.

07/31/2026

"How much do I need to save before I can get divorced?" It's one of the most common questions we hear. Divorce has real financial costs, and going in without a plan can make an already difficult time even harder.

The honest answer is: it depends. The cost of a divorce can range from under $1,000 for couples who reach an agreement together, to tens of thousands of dollars for those who end up in court. Beyond the divorce itself, you'll also want to think about your living expenses during the process, which can take anywhere from a few months to over a year to finalize.

We've put together an article that walks through the key financial factors to consider as you plan ahead. 💛

👉 https://www.secondsaturday.com/how-much-do-i-need-to-save-for-a-divorce/

For many women, the realization that a marriage is failing is a long, agonizing road. Oftentimes, a woman will know the truth in her heart for months before

07/30/2026

Your ex's lawyer can request your texts, emails, DMs, Venmo history, location data, and more during the discovery process. Knowledge is your best protection. 💙

07/29/2026

Worried about losing your retirement account in a divorce? You may have more options than you think.

In many cases, you can negotiate to keep your retirement savings intact by offering something else of equal value in return, such as your share of the home's equity or other marital assets. It takes some creative negotiating, but it's absolutely possible.

This is exactly the kind of conversation a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst can help you navigate. Knowledge is power, especially when your future is on the line. 💙