Second Saturday Divorce Workshops

09/29/2026

The holidays will be here before you know it, and if this is your first season navigating them post-divorce, a little planning now can save you a lot of stress later.

A few things worth thinking through:

* If you have kids, talk to your ex now about the holiday schedule. Who has them when, and for which celebrations? Nailing this down early avoids last-minute scrambling.

* Think about what you want to tell family and friends, and how much you want to share. You get to decide the story and how often you tell it.

* Consider your traditions. Some might still bring you joy. Others might need to be retired, or reimagined into something new that's just yours.

* If you usually host or attend certain parties or gatherings, ask yourself if that still fits this year. It's okay to say no, or to show up differently than you have in the past.

However you spend this season, give yourself permission to do it your way. There's no rulebook for a "divorced person's first holidays." You get to write your own. 🍂

09/24/2026

Thinking about picking up a part-time job after your divorce? It's worth weighing both sides first.

On one hand, extra income can help you rebuild savings, catch up on retirement contributions, or just ease the day-to-day financial pressure that often comes with starting over on one income.

On the other hand, that income could affect your spousal support or child support, depending on your settlement and where you live. Some agreements factor in your earning potential, so a new paycheck could mean a recalculated support amount.

A part-time job might make sense if you're financially stable enough that a support adjustment wouldn't hurt, or if your support is set to end soon anyway. It might make less sense if you're relying heavily on support right now and a change could create financial strain.

There's no one right answer here. Before you accept that job offer, it's worth talking to your attorney or financial advisor about how it could affect your specific situation. 💼

09/22/2026

Starting over after divorce often means starting over with... well, stuff. That includes furniture, kitchen items, and everyday essentials you left behind or split with your ex. And buying it all new? That adds up fast.

Here's your permission slip: you don't have to buy new.

Secondhand shopping has come a long way, and there's zero shame in furnishing your new place this way. Some great places to look:

* Facebook Marketplace
* Local swap meets and garage sales
* Goodwill and thrift stores (seriously, some hidden gems in there)
* "Buy Nothing" groups in your city, where neighbors give things away for free

It's easier on your wallet, easier on the planet, and gives good items a second life. 💛

09/17/2026

If your ex is keeping the house, don't forget one important step: getting your name off the mortgage.

It's an easy thing to overlook, but it matters. As long as your name is on that mortgage, you're on the hook for it, no matter what your divorce decree says. If your ex ever falls behind on payments, your credit takes the hit right along with theirs. And a mortgage still sitting on your credit report can make it harder to qualify for your own loans down the road, whether that's a car, an apartment, or a new home.

We put together a helpful guide walking through five different ways to get your name off the mortgage after divorce, from refinancing to loan assumption to a few other options worth knowing about.

Read it here: https://www.secondsaturday.com/how-to-get-your-name-off-a-mortgage-after-divorce/

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09/15/2026

Feeling the weight of everything right now? Sometimes the simplest thing helps the most: go for a walk.

Whether you're considering divorce, working through couples counseling, in the thick of the process, or rebuilding your life on the other side, a daily walk can be a small, powerful reset. And with the summer heat finally easing (at least in some parts of the country) and the leaves starting to turn, now's a beautiful time to get outside.

A few reasons to lace up:

* Clears your head and lowers stress
* Improves sleep
* Boosts your mood naturally
* Gets you out to enjoy fall's best weather
* Builds a small daily habit you can count on

You don't need a destination or a plan. Just step outside and let your feet do the rest. 🍁

09/10/2026

Divorce doesn't have to mean a courtroom battle.

Mediation is a process where you and your spouse work with a neutral third party to reach agreements on everything from dividing assets to creating a parenting plan. It's often faster, more private, and far less expensive than going through litigation, and it puts the decisions in your hands instead of a judge's.

Curious if it's the right fit for you? One of our most popular articles breaks down how mediation works, what to expect at each stage, and how to know if it's a good match for your situation.

Read it here: https://www.secondsaturday.com/what-is-divorce-mediation-and-is-it-right-for-me/

Read the ultimate guide to divorce mediation. Learn its benefits, process, and how to prepare for a smoother, cooperative divorce with divorce mediation.

09/08/2026

A lot of us grew up believing that buying a house is what "successful adults" do.

If you're going through a divorce and need to move out of your current home, you might feel pressure to buy a new one right away. You don't have to.

We're in a strange housing market. According to Freddie Mac, the average 30-year mortgage rate has been sitting around 6.5% to 6.7% for months now, more than double what many buyers locked in a few years ago. At the same time, plenty of homeowners are staying put because they don't want to give up their low old rate, which means fewer homes are hitting the market and prices are staying stubbornly high.

Buying in this market, on top of everything else you're navigating, can add stress you don't need. Renting isn't a step backward. It's flexibility while you rebuild, and it doesn't have to be forever.

When the time is right for your life and your finances, you can always buy. There's no deadline. 🏡

09/03/2026

Here's a hopeful little stat for anyone who thinks divorce means being alone forever: on average, it takes a few years for people to feel ready to remarry after a divorce, often somewhere in the 3- to 4-year range.

That number tells a story. It's not instant. It's not rushed. Most people take real time to heal, rebuild, and figure out who they are on the other side of divorce before they open their heart again.

So if you're not there yet, you're right on schedule. And if you never remarry at all, that's a full and happy life too.

There's no timeline you have to hit. Just your own. 💛

09/01/2026

Let's talk about shame for a second.

Not that long ago, divorce carried a heavy stigma. People whispered about it, felt like they had to hide it. That pressure was real, and it left a mark on a lot of people.

Cut to today: that's changing, fast. 💛

More and more, people see divorce for what it actually is: something that happens to you, not something that defines you. It's not a moral failing. It's just a life event, and a common one.

You don't have to throw a party when your divorce is final (though divorce parties are a real, growing trend, and if that's your vibe, go for it! 🎉). You also don't have to feel one ounce of shame if a quiet exhale is more your speed.

You are not your divorce. You're just you, moving forward. 💪

08/27/2026

Compromise doesn't mean you win. It doesn't mean your ex wins either. It usually means nobody walks away completely happy, and that's actually a sign it's working. 🤝

Going into your divorce negotiations expecting a perfect outcome will only leave you frustrated. Go in instead expecting to give a little, get a little, and land somewhere you can both live with.