10/15/2026
As executive director of Operation Santa’s S.L.E.D., I keep a record of every family we support. Today, I looked at the “circumstances” column for this year’s nominations, and my heart is breaking.
Of the eight families listed, six have lost a parent to su***de. The other two are facing the serious illness of a child or spouse.
Each entry represents a family. Children missing a parent. A spouse trying to keep going. Families facing things no one should have to face alone.
If you or someone you know is struggling, please know you are not alone. Even when you cannot see a way forward, there are people who care and want to help you find one. You do not have to figure everything out before asking for help.
Please reach out to someone you trust. Tell them how you are really doing.
You can call or text 988 for support.
For law enforcement officers and their families, Safe Call Now offers confidential support 24/7 at (206) 459-3020. Calls are answered by current or former first responders who understand the challenges that can come with the job. You can call when you are struggling or simply need someone to listen.
Please keep checking in on the people you care about, and remind them that support is available. We know families and friends can do everything they know to help and still lose someone to su***de. My hope in sharing this is that someone who is struggling will see it and reach out.
You matter. Your life matters. Help is available.