24/05/2024
Memorial Day weekend… the start of my most dreaded time of the year. The first weekend of the year when my news feed starts to be flooded with hundreds of pictures of friends, family, and people who know our grief well engaging in what they think are fun summer activities. Swimming in lakes, playing in creeks, tubing in freshwater, jumping off swing bridges into rivers, toddlers playing in fountains… the list goes on and on.
I dread the pictures I will see this week and for the months to come during the summer. We used to be that family. The family who didn’t think twice about swimming in freshwater. Our kids always wore life jackets, we watched them like hawks, we did everything possible to keep them safe. We were doing the best we knew…. But there was so much we didn’t know…
If we had known then what we knew now we would have never let our children swim in freshwater. I hear it all the time, “it won’t happen to me. You were just unlucky.” I beg you to think about our family this week and in the weeks to come as you plan your summer fun. One swim is not worth the hell We live in everyday.
Two years ago we sat down with WRAL on Memorial day weekend to share our story. So much has changed since then yet still so much is still the same. Since then we have raised a lot more money, supported a lot more research held numerous more community events Yet the feelings are all the same and the hurt has only deepened. The awareness we hoped to spread when this was filmed and today all remains the same.
Please watch and share and think about safe swimming practices this weekend and in the summer weeks to come. You do not want your loved one to become another statistic.
Make memories this weekend with your loved ones. What I wouldn’t do to have one more day with my Aven.
https://www.wral.com/parents-of-child-lost-to-brain-eating-amoeba-fight-to-keep-others-safe/20296294/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAAR1eFfw1RhAGt10cuOEPpPVOiy9f0oWiqU9IEhuz0NUkq2PSlaH-oH7Bgpc_aem_AQlAjqJFhtyeNiy8mF1GOliRW9p6Qt67HNLUSOu7eFvkejUWIDTWJl439rdM_mlhRcUodIqBNPznC4_h1l6djatp
This weekend, families and children will be going to the lake, swimming and having fun this Memorial Day. A Wake Forest family hopes you will hear their story before you do. In August, they lost their 6-year-old after a swim.